I know what you mean. I've been "that girl", and caught flak for saying what everyone else was saying in private behind that one person's back. The message was, it's OK if we gossip about so-and-so with you, but you're a real bitch if you turn around and actually voice the legit concerns to that person. Well, I'm not really friends with any of those people anymore.
So that's another thing: don't talk trash about people to mutual friends and then get upset when the mutual friend airs the shared concerns. If you don't have the balls to talk to that person yourself in the first place suck it up when somebody else does it for you.
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So that's another thing: don't talk trash about people to mutual friends and then get upset when the mutual friend airs the shared concerns. If you don't have the balls to talk to that person yourself in the first place suck it up when somebody else does it for you.
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