I know I'm 'just the kid' around here, but I think all you can do is take things one day at a time. See Oz some more, maybe see where you two are going to take your relationship. I mean, friendship.
And I wouldn't tell Tara about him being back in town. Not just yet. I mean, you might find out that you and Oz don't have any common ground anymore, you might have both changed too much to carry on any sort of good friendship. I think you need to figure out where you and Oz stand before you even think about telling Tara he's in town. And then, if things work out and you and Oz are best buds again, then you can tell Tara *exactly* how you feel. While, if you tell her right away, you'll worry about her, AND Oz, AND you're mixed up feelings. And you could hurt both of them, that way.
I think you should tell her. Trust goes a long way and keep something big like this probably isn't such a great idea. Besides, Tara loves you, I think she'll understand.
And yes, I remember the badness that happened when Oz was here last time. People learn to grow. I know I did and I know Tara has too.
((OOC: I hope that's okay. I really didn't know what to see hence the reason I didn't reply right away))
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I know I'm 'just the kid' around here, but I think all you can do is take things one day at a time. See Oz some more, maybe see where you two are going to take your relationship. I mean, friendship.
And I wouldn't tell Tara about him being back in town. Not just yet. I mean, you might find out that you and Oz don't have any common ground anymore, you might have both changed too much to carry on any sort of good friendship. I think you need to figure out where you and Oz stand before you even think about telling Tara he's in town. And then, if things work out and you and Oz are best buds again, then you can tell Tara *exactly* how you feel. While, if you tell her right away, you'll worry about her, AND Oz, AND you're mixed up feelings. And you could hurt both of them, that way.
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One thing at a time isn't a bad idea. You may have a point.
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And yes, I remember the badness that happened when Oz was here last time. People learn to grow. I know I did and I know Tara has too.
((OOC: I hope that's okay. I really didn't know what to see hence the reason I didn't reply right away))
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((it's okay))
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