State of the asshole stalker EX

[siriusly_lupin]

I really need to start updating my LJ again. I feel like I've been a horrible LJ friend, because I hardly ever comment anymore and I make actual posts even less. Although I really don't make New Year's resolutions, I think I'm going to use the new year as motivation to become active on here again. Thank you if you've hung around and you're still

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[deetour]

I'm still following and was happy to see an update from you :)
Sorry you had to go through all of that shit though. Fucking hell. Glad that you feel safer now though.
Hope there'll be more updates. I've missed them :)

[siriusly_lupin]

Yay! I'm glad you're still following me :)

And thanks. Hopefully he stays there, because it really does make me feel so much safer!

I still have more things I want to post about, so expect more updates :)

[deetour]

Looking forward to that :D

[lordes]

Now that he's in prison it's your time to get that restraining order. If you claim you fear for your life they often get one to you asap.

(I changed my username, btw, sorry - it's Katelin)

Urgh, that man sounds like every single crazy ex boyfriend of mine all melted and put into one person. I'm so sorry. If it were me I'd move away, change my address, my phone, my name and my family just to avoid him, which is unrealistic but I'm a scared paranoid girl *nods*

I'm sorry bb *clings*

[siriusly_lupin]

I saw your post on your new username, so I knew it was you :) I'm going to miss your old username, but I like this one too.

Unfortunately, it doesn't really matter if I feel unsafe. If he hasn't outright threatened to harm me (which he hasn't), then they don't consider him a threat, only a nuisance. Which is why he has to be there to defend himself if I do want to get a restraining order. It's kind of fucked up the way it works. I'm not sure how they would handle that now that he's in prison again though.

I'm sorry you've had to deal with anyone even remotely like this, because I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. And believe me, I've considered all those things and more *nods and clings back*

[lordes]

Ah, good to know! Don't want to confuse people ;-)

Exes are insane idiots.

[anonymous]

It seems a little mean to say this about anybody, but thank God he's back in prison. He was actually starting to sound really scary. Sounds like things may be picking up a little for you.

Hope this is the start of good things for you in 2014.

I only skimmed this now, because I wanted to get to what was going on now. I was afraid he'd started stalking you again, which I guess the letter could be considered, but at least he's locked up, so he can't do too much to you. *pokes him with Collins' sod of turf*

-Margaret.

[siriusly_lupin]

I don't think it's mean at all to say that. Like I've said, it's where he belongs. The streets are safer with him locked up and so am I, because he's obviously not showing any signs of changing if he's back there again.

I hope so too. It's off to a good start anyway, so we shall see.

You know most of this post anyway, because I posted about it in detail on the Nuthouse *cracks up at you poking him with Collins' sod of turf* *pokes him with Greyback* *huggles you*

[anonymous]

*hugs you back and pokes him some more*

There aren't many people I'd wish prison on, but he just might be an exception.

-Margaret.

[anna_potter]

If you're a horrible LJ friend then so am I since I haven't been around in ages. I can't even remember the last time I updated. Work is slowly but surely killing me.

I can't believe you're still putting up with this asshole. Any moron with more than two brain cells to rub together would have gotten the picture by now. He needs to grow a pair and move on with his life or just lay in the bed he's created for himself.

I think we need an all night gaming session sometime in the near future where we make fun of our exes and eat way too much.

[siriusly_lupin]

You and me both.

That's what I think every single time he rears his ugly head - MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. A bit hard to do that when you're in prison again, but yeah, you've made your bed so just lie in it, you fucking moron.

And I agree! An all night gaming session with lots of ex jokes seems like just what the doctor ordered. Are you busy tonight? :P I'll text you, because I don't think I gave you my new phone number after I changed it *hops off to do that*