Mmmmm... If I could purr, I would be. "What Rough Beast" by quercus is such a pretty pretty SG-1 story. Makes me want to travel. See Egypt, Africa, Chile -- or India as my grandparents recently did
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Except for being in that many relationships, I have a similar temperament. Sometimes I'll be sociable and out there, but there have also been periods in my life where I don't want to talk anyone, where I hate humanity in general, and wish this were the 17th century and people would pay me to be a hermit. My default state is being single; it's being in a romantic relationship that's the aberration.
You sound exactly like me; I'm too... whatever... to do the normal couple thing, but I want someone around. Independence, self-absorption, intorvertedness, mysanthropy, whatever it is, I want a solitary relationship--guess that is an oxymoron. I'm doing the dating thing with this guy, and I'm already wary of all the obligations that are involved.
I totally feel you on the singleness. I never dated as a teenager, and even after that only rarely, and I do think that's largely because I don't tend to look for it. I like meeting new people (and there's something I never thought I'd hear myself saying, heh) and making new friends, but I'll take a new friend over a girlfriend any day.
but yeah, totally. I've done a complete 180 from before!me. Now when I meet someone, I'm looking to get to know them - not fuck them. I don't go for the whole "love at first sight" thing. I'm just not preoccupied with having to have a partner. I think friend first, not potential person-to-get-naked-with.
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I like being alone.
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I'm realizing that. When I look back at the last time that I was really happy, it was right before I met the Evil Ex. And the next time? This summer.
I think I'm going to be happily single for a while, at least.
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but yeah, totally. I've done a complete 180 from before!me. Now when I meet someone, I'm looking to get to know them - not fuck them. I don't go for the whole "love at first sight" thing. I'm just not preoccupied with having to have a partner. I think friend first, not potential person-to-get-naked-with.
And this makes my friends think I am INSANE.
ungrateful bitch friends!*smites them*
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DAMN YOU AND THE OCEAN BETWEEN US! *shakes fist impotently*
ungrateful bitch friends!*smites them*
First thing my brain supplied: "inconsiderate bitch friends!" My brain is STILL warped by popslash!
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Parts of that fandom will never leave my head. I'm sure of it.
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