I am really, really sorry. I've just said much the same to C -
I've already said it - when I finally got up enough nerve to ask about "the counseling sessions." I truly hoped you would be spared this. I wasn't - not the first time. I can't know what this is like for you - and won't presume I could - but I do know what it was like for me, even if I was less successful at resolving the issues Cliff and I were plagued with (and were, up to the day he died). Anyone who offers "I've been there, done that" should be shot on sight - IMHO, right after the words "And then I did - "
Only if asked. You get that from me, only if asked.
If this resolves one way or the other, it will be on your terms - that, I will firmly support no matter what. If there is anything from my own experience you could find useful, you know where to find me.
The irony of this whole weekend thing? This is the weekend I moved Jim out here, seven years ago.
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I am sorry, sorry, sorry. Gods. Time to light the good incense....
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I've already said it - when I finally got up enough nerve to ask about "the counseling sessions." I truly hoped you would be spared this. I wasn't - not the first time. I can't know what this is like for you - and won't presume I could - but I do know what it was like for me, even if I was less successful at resolving the issues Cliff and I were plagued with (and were, up to the day he died). Anyone who offers "I've been there, done that" should be shot on sight - IMHO, right after the words "And then I did - "
Only if asked. You get that from me, only if asked.
If this resolves one way or the other, it will be on your terms - that, I will firmly support no matter what. If there is anything from my own experience you could find useful, you know where to find me.
The irony of this whole weekend thing? This is the weekend I moved Jim out here, seven years ago.
..
I am sorry, sorry, sorry. Gods. Time to light the good incense....
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