Comments | silverbromide: No questions, no lies...

silverbromide

No questions, no lies...

Jul 01, 2008 23:43

Tell me something you think I should know. Post anonymously if you like; I will not track addresses.

And/Or:

Ask me a question and I'll answer honestly.

(Anything to do with anything. Silly? Perhaps. Really, I'm just bored.)

And You: I'm not sure if you deleted your comment or if I accidentally did. But we miss you too, whether or not ( Read more... )

meme, attention whore, something, navel gazing

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rialian July 2 2008, 03:55:40 UTC

===You are an awesome person. (well, I would hope that you know I consider you, Jim, and Connor awesome...but in case not known before, this is indeed the case, and something you should know. (grins)

===I know better than to ask such questions, as I know something about how faery tales work. (grins)

silverbromide July 3 2008, 04:05:34 UTC

The affirmation is nice, actually, because we consider you an awesome person too, but sometimes we do things differently and don't offer an explanation, and we worry that your opinion of us may be easily influenced. Glad you still like us! (We wouldn't want to lose you.)

rialian July 3 2008, 21:53:19 UTC

===(grins) Oh, my opinion of folks is not easily influenced..(look at some of the folks I have had to deal with...(laughter). I cannot think of anything that you all have done has seemed at all unreasonable.

===If every you wonder, feel free to ask...I tend to be rather transparent about pretty much everything. (grins) of course, I am an elf...so even that tends to confuse folks more, but you all do seem to have a reasonably good translation skillset...(grins)

anonymous July 2 2008, 06:23:13 UTC

Secret:

I've always been incredibly attracted to you.

Question:

How save friendships after a big fight?

silverbromide July 3 2008, 04:12:50 UTC

Answer:

How would *i* save a friendship after a fight? Space and time. (Not changing them, but letting them do their jobs.) Most of my fights are really just gigantic misunderstandings. Once a few moments (days?) are taken to ditch the emotional reflex, look at the situation objectively, and try to gain the other individual's perspective, a bunch of points are clarified and usually the fight can be resolved.

I really don't get into fights very often, though, and am hopelessly empathetic.

Secret:
:op

czarina_laura July 2 2008, 13:30:19 UTC

Should I tell my husband that the Standard American Diet is no longer doing him any favors? I don't want to see him become the Standard American Fatass with bad health and excessive pudge due to a failure to diversify...

Should I tell my son that he should use his words instead of crying anytime he's upset? I want to see him become stronger without inflicting the "BOYS CAN NEVER EVER CRY" message...How do you plan to handle this with your boy?

Should I grow up to be Laura Ingalls Wilder (with more kids hopefully and living in New England instead of the plains)? Did *you* ever want to be Laura Ingalls Wilder?

Finally, where do you see yourself in 5 years? ;-)

silverbromide July 3 2008, 04:56:17 UTC

I guess advice can fall in the the "honest answer" category. I did say "a question," though. :o) Will answer them because they're interesting and i'm procrastinating. And because I like you ( ... )

silverbromide July 11 2008, 05:12:41 UTC

In five years ( ... )

kiarrith July 2 2008, 13:58:39 UTC

am sick and have no energy but i love you =)

silverbromide July 3 2008, 04:13:26 UTC

Love you too. :oD Hope you feel better soon. *nuzzle*

lilitusama July 2 2008, 14:39:04 UTC

Can we hang out sometime, all of us?

silverbromide July 3 2008, 04:18:28 UTC

All of us = younyours + menmine? Or = all of your personalities + all of my personalities? Or everyone on our mutual friends lists?

I think the first answer is more practical, but any way, I'd love to! (Easier said than done, though. Traveling is extremely difficult for us atm and is often eaten by family... but i will work on arrangements.) Or you could come visit us, if you feel like trekking across the state!

We've both changed a bunch since we last met and I'll bet we could get some good conversation going.

lilitusama July 3 2008, 22:50:04 UTC

Younyours + menmine, mostly. The personality one would be okay too, although I have to warn you that the one of mine is a bit rude, another is pretty condescending, and still another just wants to play 24/7.

Or.. maybe just younyours + me. I think that you would like Scott very much, but he works too much to be able to get much time off and... anyway it might do me some good to go on a trip.

Anyway, details can be worked on. :D Email me? Or I can email you.