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Aug 11, 2005 22:04

well, i think my life has basically gone from tolerable to a hellish inferno of impending doom (yes, that extreme ( Read more... )

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iansjournal August 11 2005, 22:13:54 UTC
whoa whoa whoa, slow down girl. You're thinking ahead of yourself. In terms of your life and relationships. If ap is too much, just drop down to a slower paced class, they can do that. Just tell a teacher it's a lil much on you. And as for your relationship. I don't know what you're expecting, things don't just happen in one month. I mean are you saying you don't feel any kind of happiness with him? Or are you saying you feel upset cause you don't see yourself googli eyed over your bf, drooling and constantly mumbling i love you? lol i mean love doesn't just happen out of thin air, in most cases where people think they love a person in a month is either lust or obsession. I understand you're stressed out,lol but you're over exaggerating a bit. You're life isn't that hellish. I know plenty of people worse off, you're just a smidge stressed out. There are steps you can take to change things for the better, so don't freak.

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shadow_allie August 15 2005, 18:32:15 UTC
lol, thanks. i needed that. that and a good slap across the face. maybe i was being a little hasty. i guess i am expecting a bit too much too fast in a relationship, especially a first one. i just still wonder if there is such a thing as love out there somewhere....?
as far as ap goes, i'm settling into the class now, and i've almost recovered from my shock. i'll give it my best try :)

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iansjournal August 17 2005, 18:01:21 UTC
love still exists but love at first sight doesn't exist, only lust. It may not be a physical lust but it's still a lust in some manner. Cause the saying love is blind is very true. You could know a friend for you whole life and then see them pissed off to realize that they love you and you actually loved them. that's just an example. Well what do you mean when you wonder if love exist out there, i mean of course it does but what manner of love are you speaking of, what exactly are you looking for or do you expect, what do you want that you don't have yet?

okay i'm glad. just remember even in a crappy situation don't say you have no options or that it's out of your control. Cause then you get extremely stressed you always have options even if they're crappy ones, but you still have one.

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fuyuzare August 12 2005, 01:22:00 UTC
Allie ::glomps:: You're making me upset kid! T^T I'm sorry it's going bad with your boyfriend... In my opinion, if you don't love him then there isn't much point dating him - when the right person turns up, as they invariably do, you'll just have a lot of problems to sort out then if you're still dating someone you don't feel much for... Still, that's only my opinion, you should just do what you think is best... Just feel happy knowing that my romantic life is far more screwed up and crappy than yours... >.<

And dude, I'm hurt that you haven't added me back as a friend ;_; After all we've been through! Lol ^^

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shadow_allie August 15 2005, 18:34:34 UTC
i honestly don't know HOW to add you, or i would've loooooong ago! i'm sorry!!!! i don't deserve to live!!!! lol, jk.
everyone's right. i need to chill about this, a bit. btw, i met someone who acts/looks like you! their nickname was muffin, so now you're referred to as "the english muffin"
lol

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fuyuzare August 16 2005, 01:39:23 UTC
Haha ^^ That's ok, I don't feel hurt now!

Just go HERE ( <---- my userinfo page) and click the little button with a picture of a man and a plus sign in the blue rectangle above the bit that says 'User = de_profundus'. Then click 'Add de_profundus', and my entries will come up on your Friends page ^_^ Sweet!!

I don't mind being the English Muffin. I like muffins... Plus, I think I used to be called muffin a while ago by someone... Can't remember quite now...

And about the whole boyfriend thing, try not to worry ^^ It's definitely not worth getting stressed out about...

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shadow_allie August 15 2005, 18:36:10 UTC
i sorry. i had work yesterday. yes, i'm having everybody withdrawals, especically andrea ones, since i basically spent three weeks, twenty four seven with you. i really miss having someone to talk to at all hours of the day about w/e.
i'll try and call u tomorrow, ks?

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