Comments | shadesong: This is your periodic reminder that Judah Sher is a rapist.

shadesong

This is your periodic reminder that Judah Sher is a rapist.

Jun 23, 2014 10:59

And specifically, Judah Sher is a rapist and abuser who has once again begun to escalate his behavior toward me ( Read more... )

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cbpotts June 23 2014, 16:45:45 UTC

One thing about these fuckers is when they tip their hand, you know they're still playing cards. I am very angry on your behalf. I am very proud you are using all the tools available to you to keep him from exerting power over you.

brithistorian June 23 2014, 17:52:28 UTC

I'm sorry to hear that you're still having to go through this. My hat's off to you for the way you're continuing to fight this - though I'm really somewhat sickened at the realization I'd just had that there probably won't ever be a point where you can declare that you have "won" and won't need to fight anymore. If there's ever anything I can do to help, please let me know.

shadesong June 23 2014, 18:09:08 UTC

Yep. No finish line. Even after I win the civil case... how likely is he to just up and go away? Not very.

brithistorian June 23 2014, 18:41:13 UTC

Wow. Just... wow. My admiration for abuse survivors has just blown through the roof.

twistpeach June 24 2014, 10:55:17 UTC

The guy who raped me swore he was leaving the state in disgrace. Instead, he waited two years and it now going back to an old friends group who doesn't know or doesn't believe or doesn't care.

Hit me right in the gut when he liked a picture of MY SON on facebook, posted by my ex. Who doesn't care. I'm so sorry about this. I'm glad you find your voice to speak and I hope people back you up. I will.

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rosefox June 23 2014, 18:02:03 UTC

UGH, that is revolting and awful.

I'm surprised he's welcome at that party. I know the hosts have banned people before (including a person who harassed friends of mine but who has not, as far as I know, ever assaulted anyone). May I forward this post to the party hosts?

shadesong June 23 2014, 18:08:14 UTC

I e-mailed them Saturday night, and they're both on my friendslist so they may have already seen this - but absolutely feel free to forward, with your opinions on the matter. I know several people were made uncomfortable by his presence and told the hosts so at the time and afterward.

I know of at least two people they've banned for harassment and sexual assault in the past. There's precedent.

amokk June 23 2014, 21:20:25 UTC

That facebook thread...

sariel_t June 23 2014, 21:39:52 UTC

Please put this under a cut. This is still trigger material for me, and reading it coming home from work has been very very hard.