dear internet,

[setfiretolife]

So, I'm emailing with this guy from yet another dating site. He mentions his crazy stressy job, I mention that he needs some of the awesome stress relief, known as hanging out with me. His reply only mentions a need for stress relief, not me. So my answer is backing off, perhaps the crazy stress is a way to not be interested in me. His next

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[sarahwilder]

I'd ignore the hint. That way you don't risk over-reacting and don't need to have the awkward conversation unless he comes right out and ASKS, in which case he deserves all the awkward you can throw at him.

Whenever someone has hinted at free yoga sessions, I've pretty much smiled and pretended they never said anything and it's never come up again.

If a guy isn't thinking about sex he is thinking about sex.

[nixxfey]

My husband fixes computer systems for a living. If I plead and give him puppy dog eyes and ask nicely he will sigh and fix my mother's or sister's computer. He even gives the same reaction to his own family when they ask. He will give out computer advice if he is in the right mood, but his comment is that he fixes computers all day long and why would he want to fix a computer at home.

Is this one of those things were if he was actually interested in me, he wouldn't say such a thing?Read first line. If a guy isn't thinking about sex he is thinking about sex

[supremegoddess1]

I don't give it. Period. You want therapy? Hire a therapist.

[sistrmoon]

how would they get free work from a nurse? By asking, "Hey, can you take a look at my rash?"