Forward?
Well, it is official... my X has started an intimate relationship with another. Thursday all was as before, but today my universe shifted. This sudden change in our relationship from "best friends with benefits" to X lovers has left me feeling discombobulated
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You better believe that's part of being human! C'est la vive. Keep hope, we are all so young still, finding 3 women already is quite a feat! It's all good fodder for making life worth living.
To comment on your thoughts of China, I think the whole concept is highly overrated. It has been my experience with those that have done just that, (often under similar circumstances) that the epiphany and monkdom both come with a touch of insanity better suited for doctors than lovers.
If your looking to shake things up...take a cue from women...cut or dye your hair, it's much cheaper then that plan ticket to China and easier to go back on.
Another suggestion...declutter. Three things a day find there way to the trash or reuse room, make your surroundings filled with things you absoultly love.
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Those are just people I was interested in... I only actually dated one of them. Seems a bit light for 10 years to me, but I know there are those that have done worse, so there is that.
As for China, it is a need to just say "Screw it ALL!" and escape, and I recognize that. I hadn't thought of trying insanity though... that might be interesting ;)
Thanks for the advice. This is just a bend in the road, and deep down I know I will get past it. That knowledge doesn't make it hurt any less... but, that is what Time is for I guess.
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Hmmmm there is only one I really hoped would work out..maybe it still will, who knows?!
**"The emptiness seemed easier to bear when I did not know its presence."**
I hear ya brother =P..we're def all guilty of hiding truth from ourselves just so we dont have to face that sure path of lonliness. But it gets better despite how much it hurts. =D Your a fine catch, you wont have any problems...Just be yourself, be happy and one day she'll come along. =D I think thats what all the married/involved ppl tell singles...lol...I hope its got some truth to it though. =S
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