I'm sorry I forgot to say happy birthday,hon. I'm bad about forgetting stuff like that even after LJ reminded me. Besides, not everyone likes to be reminded about birthdays. I tend to get a bit bummed out myself most years because I start to think of all the things I had meant to do by that age.
Unless you, yourself have a history of drinking too much, once in three years is no big deal. And no two people grieve exactly the same. Four months isn't very long. If you're still stuck like this after a year, then it's probably time to make time for a therapist. That's my opinion.
If you really need to talk, you've got my chat I.D. Anytime I'm online, I'm happy to talk.
No I don't and she knows this. I admit that the times I did, I got stinking drunk. That was my goal at the time though. It was fun. It still would be but I have Dylan. And if I wanted to get that way again I'd send him to his other grandmother so he wouldn't have to be around us, or me. So there is no irresponsibility on that part.
Every time I do pull out something like this she gets all weird like this. I'm sorry she went through that. Just because it happened to her doesn't mean I'll do it.
And don't worry about wishing a happy b-day or not, in fact I'm happy you didn't. Not that I resented the fact that Daz did. How could anyone know I'd hate it this year? Usually I'll tell everyone and anyone. Not so this year. Hell I threatened to send my gift back that my husband got me. It's 4 Saiyuki pins one each of the main characters. I mean that's how unhappy I was. It wasn't until last month did I realize what the my B-day would also be. I think next year will be better.
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Unless you, yourself have a history of drinking too much, once in three years is no big deal. And no two people grieve exactly the same. Four months isn't very long. If you're still stuck like this after a year, then it's probably time to make time for a therapist. That's my opinion.
If you really need to talk, you've got my chat I.D. Anytime I'm online, I'm happy to talk.
Anyway, Happy Belated Birthday.
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Every time I do pull out something like this she gets all weird like this. I'm sorry she went through that. Just because it happened to her doesn't mean I'll do it.
And don't worry about wishing a happy b-day or not, in fact I'm happy you didn't. Not that I resented the fact that Daz did. How could anyone know I'd hate it this year? Usually I'll tell everyone and anyone. Not so this year. Hell I threatened to send my gift back that my husband got me. It's 4 Saiyuki pins one each of the main characters. I mean that's how unhappy I was. It wasn't until last month did I realize what the my B-day would also be. I think next year will be better.
I just wish she had more faith in me than that.
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