Writers, Time, and Kids

Dec 05, 2010 06:03

Today's BVC post is about being a parent and a writer, here.

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jolantru December 5 2010, 15:15:46 UTC
Totally resonated with the post. I have two girls: one is seven and the other one. So, my writing plain dips. I write, when I have the time and space - which is at night. ;)

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sartorias December 5 2010, 15:23:58 UTC
I have several friends who were able to work at night. It also helped that their kids would crash at a civilized hour. Both mine turned out to be night owls; with the first, I used to get teary around ten, when I was stupefied with exhaustion, and she still had an hour or two of energy to go, and I was certain I had the only baby in the world that preferred to go to bed at midnight.

Now, with her 29 and the second one 18, this house is busy pretty much all night, and many is the time when I rise at four or so, and they are all just going to bed!

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capnflynn December 5 2010, 15:41:27 UTC
Thank you for this! As a brand-new parent and aspiring writer, I've been wondering how I was ever going to find time to finish that (those) novel(s); it's good to have some advice to ponder.

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sartorias December 5 2010, 15:42:15 UTC
It's gonna be a juggle, but the time WILL come. And meanwhile, enjoy that small one! Believe me, that time goes fast, in retrospect.

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cschells December 5 2010, 16:38:16 UTC
I thought that's what televisions were for! *g* (Well, that's how I got my dissertation written, anyway, but I guess I would have had a harder time justifying it to myself if it hadn't been a one-time project...)
I've been trying to schedule the household chores for the last month or so, which I've never done before. It's nice, though, because if I know that laundry happens on Monday and Thursday, then I don't feel bad about ignoring the whole huge pile on Tuesday and writing (or napping--generally napping) instead.

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sartorias December 5 2010, 16:54:56 UTC
I've never been able to make a schedule work--we're too chaotic!

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cschells December 5 2010, 19:36:04 UTC
It's completely contrary to my nature, so I don't know if it will last, but there are some benefits...

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asakiyume December 5 2010, 17:33:13 UTC
I really, really appreciated that, and I bet it'll be encouraging to lots of writers with small children.

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sartorias December 5 2010, 17:45:09 UTC
I hope so--thanks for reading it!

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queenoftheskies December 5 2010, 17:47:34 UTC
Great post. Sometime I can relate to, even now.

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sartorias December 5 2010, 18:02:08 UTC
Oh yes!

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