Last night I crossed town (that means a very considerable freeway drive in SoCal) for a nifty visit with old friends, during which I drank a lot of strong tea in order to stay alert for the return drive. The tea got me home just fine, but though I was physically pooped, my mind was ooo-eee, watch that hamster wheel whirl
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I mean, heck. Charles I would have been appalled at the way she treated her servants.
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Now, her treatment of underlings is another issue. Could she be as successful and driven and treat others with more grace? Sure. But the point is all about her being driven. And what that means.
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Lucky me, I was the right age at the right time. I started learning BASIC programming in 1979, got a computer in 1982, and then a (300 bps!) modem in 1983. I later discovered this "UNIX" and "Internet" stuff, which was mostly a bunch of fun toys when I was in college in the late 1980s. Then it turned out that those fun toys were about to turn into things people would pay me to work with.
[1] I was pretty sure this year was right, but I still checked with the mighty Google.
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And I don't think social awkwardness (the geekery type) is related to the 'can't be bothered to spend time with people who can't help me get on in life' snobbery the Priestley character exhibits.
Choosing to spend time alone/in a narrow circle vs. attempting to go into the wider world... hm. Not sure how to find the right balance, or how individual that is. And I think that the geek has a forerunner in the confirmed bachelor or the Oxford (and otherwise) Don, the Sherlock Holmes's of this world - only 'eccentric' has gone out of fashion, so the same kind of people acquired new hobbies, but do not behave essentially differently.
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I think the social-awkwardness aspect is important to the definition. It's not just having the consuming interest, it's also not being skilled at social give and take. Happily, you can progress out of that... some people with geek-level intensity of interest and expertise in an area can also be quite personable. I'm thinking Stephen Hawking must be one example, though I've never met him. But the fact that he's done things like make guest appearances on Star Trek or The Simpsons makes me think he's got a sense of fun about himself and his ideas that leads me to believe he'd be quite personable.
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It's true about geeks seeing themselves as powerless in the social scene. In a weird way, the Miranda character also was socially powerless in that no one liked her or wanted to be with her except in the way of business . . . five failed marriages, and her kids raised by servants. (Even when she's home alone, she's not with those kids.)
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But she doesn't really know what to do with Andy's acts of friendship. There are no strings attached to them, and Miranda expects strings.
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I got this faint sense that Miranda's whole life was going to be measured by disappointments, in the end.
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