That's so shitty of them. Just, i mean... seriously. What do they think bitching you out is going to accomplish? I mean, hello counterproductive, if they want you to do well in classes.... :(((
They have always been this way, seems yelling at someone motivates them to do better...or so my family thinks -_-;;; I need a vacation or the hell out of this house.
Naw it's okay~ It's where if you fail classes or your Grade point average (gpa) drops below a certain point and they basically give you like two semester to raise it or you are kicked out of college for a year.
I don't know if this would be helpful or not at all since I don't know the way your college works but perhaps you should let some of your professors know whats going on. Depends all on how you feel about them but like at least in my experience both I and friends have often developed good relationships with our professors and talking to them about home life often helps or at least gives them an idea why one might not be up to par and just an explanation why you might need some help so you don't fail.
Though at least you did mention therapy and hopefully that can help a little? Just at least having that person to talk to, if they're doing a good job at least.
It really is seriously messed up that they treat you like you're still 18 though. You're 21 now which means you're an adult who can make her own decisions and I think you need to get out as fast as you can and just not let them try to pull you back. Because I think the only way you'll ever be happy and healthy will be if you get away from them.
Well with my profesors most of them could give a shit less about my home life...RBC teachers aren't the greatest at times. But I can try...
I have spoken to her before I've know my therapist since I was about 10 years old so we have a good understanding and she knows how my family is by now. But she has found I am pron to panic attacks and meltdowns thanks to stress...so maybe talking today will stop me from having another one today.
I want to...believe me but it's a matter of having a job and somewhere to go.
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That's so shitty of them. Just, i mean... seriously. What do they think bitching you out is going to accomplish? I mean, hello counterproductive, if they want you to do well in classes....
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They have always been this way, seems yelling at someone motivates them to do better...or so my family thinks -_-;;; I need a vacation or the hell out of this house.
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Naw it's okay~ It's where if you fail classes or your Grade point average (gpa) drops below a certain point and they basically give you like two semester to raise it or you are kicked out of college for a year.
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Though at least you did mention therapy and hopefully that can help a little? Just at least having that person to talk to, if they're doing a good job at least.
It really is seriously messed up that they treat you like you're still 18 though. You're 21 now which means you're an adult who can make her own decisions and I think you need to get out as fast as you can and just not let them try to pull you back. Because I think the only way you'll ever be happy and healthy will be if you get away from them.
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I have spoken to her before I've know my therapist since I was about 10 years old so we have a good understanding and she knows how my family is by now. But she has found I am pron to panic attacks and meltdowns thanks to stress...so maybe talking today will stop me from having another one today.
I want to...believe me but it's a matter of having a job and somewhere to go.
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