Choosing Mommy-hood

[sammipunk]

A couple of years ago, when I announced that I was pregnant, I got a lot of congratulations, some excitement, and a few...interesting responses. I was mildly offended at the latter. When it comes down to it, I had no real reason to be offended and I knew it. No one meant to offend. So I didn't say anything. But I resolved then that someday I'd

Comments

[annayork]

I remember reading your "FAQ" that you posted after you announced you were expecting and being really stunned/horrified that people actually asked if you planned it! You are one of the awesome-est mommies I know and I can't wait to see more pictures of your little man growing up :-)

[sammipunk]

Thanks! And yeah, people can be so thoughtless. I know they don't mean to be rude but seriously, think before you speak, you know?

[leighblack]

Some people suck. End of story.

But you - you're awesome! That kid is extremely lucky to have you! =)

[sammipunk]

Thank you! I think you're pretty damn awesome too and I'm glad I know you! :)

[bl00dyvalentine]

I approve :). I was surprised when you got pregnant but mostly because I thought you didn't want kids. Whenever people I know get pregnant, my first thought is usually "was it planned?" and then "are you keeping it?" does that make me a bad person? Haha

[sammipunk]

I always wanted kids but I didn't ever really talk about it. I didn't want to be one of *those* girls, you know?

And LOL yeah, a little, but as long as you don't voice those questions to people who might be really offended by them, you're good.

Happy Birthday!!

[absinthechilde]

Hope your B-Day is awesome!

Re: Happy Birthday!!

[sammipunk]

Thank you! (sorry my reply was late!)