oohh sweetie, I'll be strong for you. And if I'm not enough, you can borrow Tim whenever you want. He has really broad shoulders:) (sorry, my bad attempt at levity)
"I kept hearing "it was so good that _______ showed up for your parents/grandmother/sister. She/they really needed the support."
I'm really sorry for this part. I never understand why people say stupid things like that to you.
Personally, I'm waiting for the opportunity to go off on all of Dad's family. Although part of me is thankful that they pissed me off so much the day she died. It's the only thing that made it possible for me to get through that day. But I still want to tell the lot of them off.
If it helps, I understand everything that you're feeling. If you ever want to talk about it, I'm hear. I promise I'll just listen.
Be angry. Cry. Throw things. Yell. Sob. You have every right. I cannot begin to understand your pain, but I can tell you that I am here for you, no matter what. Anytime...now, 3 months from now, 3 years from now. I mean it. I might not be there physically, but I am just a phone call away (or a short drive if you need it...for now anyway). I said it before and I'll say it again...you can call me. You don't even have to talk. If you need to call and just cry, do it. If you need to call and yell, do it. I don't care if it's 3am or 3pm. If you need me to go buy a bunch of plates at Goodwill and bring them to you so you can throw them at a brick wall and break them, say when. (I've always thought about doing that, but I never have...someday I'm going to do it). I love you, my friend. love, Kerrie
I know I'm the new guy and all of that, but if there's anything at all that I can do to help, please ask. You have my number if you need to talk. I'm a pretty good listener.
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"I kept hearing "it was so good that _______ showed up for your parents/grandmother/sister. She/they really needed the support."
I'm really sorry for this part. I never understand why people say stupid things like that to you.
Personally, I'm waiting for the opportunity to go off on all of Dad's family. Although part of me is thankful that they pissed me off so much the day she died. It's the only thing that made it possible for me to get through that day. But I still want to tell the lot of them off.
If it helps, I understand everything that you're feeling. If you ever want to talk about it, I'm hear. I promise I'll just listen.
Love Debbie
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Kerrie
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