Honey if this whole house thing is upsetting you and J is trying to pressure you into things you don't want to do than I say it's time to walk away from it and just stay where you are or find yourself a nice little house to rent for yourself.
It was a great idea the two of you in your own little house but really if she can't get it and you don't want the shared responsibility on paper than maybe this isn't the thing for you.
hugs and love. Hope things start working in your favor again.
Aww *hugs* I'm really sorry that the situation is stressing you out so much. It's one of the reasons why moving (along with death and changing careers) is one of the most stressful things in life. While I think you are right to be firm about your limits with J, I'd urge compassion, too... she's got to be freaking out, under just as much stress over the situation and feeling like a failure because the first try fell through and she was (as she may see it) told she wasn't good enough because of the credit thing/etc. That does not make it okay for her to flip out on you, but I kinda see where she's coming from, and I'd hate to see damage to your friendship that you both may later regret, simply because you're both stressed and emotional.
Also, yaaaaaay Bascon! Can't wait to see you again. We'll have a ball, and if you need to vent, I can definitely lend an ear (and shoulder if needed)!
she's got to be freaking out, under just as much stress over the situation and feeling like a failure because the first try fell through
I think I'm going to have to write down what I need her to do to make this work before we go any further, because I have a habit of crying when I get angry/stressed/frustrated, and don't communicate very well.
I am so looking forward to a big group hug in November. We all need it. Plus some good food and drink. Thank you, sweetie!
*hugs and smooches* Do what you feel best girlfriend. *hugs again* I can understand your reason for not getting a credit card. We've been trying to get the one paid off and when it did get paid off they said it wasn't. We always went in to the store and paid it. Then credit card companies love to change due dates with no warning.
Don't let J pressure you into doing something that doesn't feel right to you. *hugs*
Take your time in coming back to the rp for now. I know stress isn't good for you. I've been updating some of the journals with what we have been doing so I have an idea of what we are doing.
Have a good time at the con when you go. Miss you alot.
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It was a great idea the two of you in your own little house but really if she can't get it and you don't want the shared responsibility on paper than maybe this isn't the thing for you.
hugs and love. Hope things start working in your favor again.
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Hopefully, it can all be resolved without too many problems.
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Also, yaaaaaay Bascon! Can't wait to see you again. We'll have a ball, and if you need to vent, I can definitely lend an ear (and shoulder if needed)!
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I think I'm going to have to write down what I need her to do to make this work before we go any further, because I have a habit of crying when I get angry/stressed/frustrated, and don't communicate very well.
I am so looking forward to a big group hug in November. We all need it. Plus some good food and drink. Thank you, sweetie!
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Don't let J pressure you into doing something that doesn't feel right to you. *hugs*
Take your time in coming back to the rp for now. I know stress isn't good for you. I've been updating some of the journals with what we have been doing so I have an idea of what we are doing.
Have a good time at the con when you go. Miss you alot.
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