MY GENDER IS PROBABLY MORE AMBIGUOUS THEN JUST FEMALE but i am really bad at talking about complicated things today. except some days I am more of a girl and some days I am more of a boy. [handwaves]
I'm female and never really questioned that, though as an Oberlin student maybe I should XD once in a while I'll wake up and go "Man! I feel like a...man," and wear a binder and gender-neutral clothing, BUT FOR THE MOST PART GUY CLOTHES MAKE ME LOOK FAT so I don't wear them l-lol.
IDK what the hell my sexuality is. At this point I've had relationships with 3 guys, 3 girls, and one FTM transgender who later decided she was a girl after all. Some days I'm more attracted to men, other days I'm all about the women. I put "male-leaning" because I think I prefer guys a tiny tiny bit more. But as long as there are women like you in the world, I can never truly be anything remotely approaching heterosexual :P
BUT REALLY, I'M ATTRACTED TO WHOEVER. Or you could say I'm asexual because it's never and actual physical attraction, just a "Oh wow that person's pretty/nice/etc" type thing.
I've thought about my gender issues before, and came to the conclusion that I don't particularly care about my gender! \o/ Biologically female.
I've gone as asexual for years, but I'm coming to realise that it isn't entirely accurate. I'm fairly sure I have a sexuality, only it kind of collects dust under the bed along with that missing slipper that I lost ages ago. I've had exactly two crushes in my life (both to males), and the last one was nearly eight years ago, but I do find my eyes following boobs on occasion. Other, and no idea what exactly I am.
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gender as mostly a nonissue/nonthought and sexuality is 'complicated'.
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IDK what the hell my sexuality is. At this point I've had relationships with 3 guys, 3 girls, and one FTM transgender who later decided she was a girl after all. Some days I'm more attracted to men, other days I'm all about the women. I put "male-leaning" because I think I prefer guys a tiny tiny bit more. But as long as there are women like you in the world, I can never truly be anything remotely approaching heterosexual :P
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BUT REALLY, I'M ATTRACTED TO WHOEVER. Or you could say I'm asexual because it's never and actual physical attraction, just a "Oh wow that person's pretty/nice/etc" type thing.
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I've gone as asexual for years, but I'm coming to realise that it isn't entirely accurate. I'm fairly sure I have a sexuality, only it kind of collects dust under the bed along with that missing slipper that I lost ages ago. I've had exactly two crushes in my life (both to males), and the last one was nearly eight years ago, but I do find my eyes following boobs on occasion. Other, and no idea what exactly I am.
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