Just a few things

[rhyannon]

I can understand being jealous of things that other people have that you don't. I can even understand being wary of an ex and saying hateful things to them to increase the distance between you. Everyone has a psycho ex at some point, and generally we make them out to be because we're hurt and angry and sad. It doesn't really matter if the ex

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[chrispina]

they are both going through an extremely stressful and emotionally charged time, for different reasons. hopefull the dust will settle and apologies will be made for words said in anger.

[rhyannon]

Well that just depends on which side you consider angry and who you expect to apologize. In this case, I'd say a snowball's chance in hell is probably you're best bet for both. Then again, that's me. And regardless of stress or emotions, ditching a friend isn't right. Period.

[chrispina]

apologizing would have to be done on both sides, i think, to salvage the friendship. i ditched a friend once after i felt that he had wronged me... even though i still think i was right in our conflict, i regret the loss of the friend now 10 years later and i wish i had just tried to make peace.

[blackbird013]

Good luck to your friend.

So far as the others...Karma has a way of taking care of things. If you work to destroy the lives of others regardless of what you may be able to do to hurt them, or even guide them down the wrong path, it comes back on you threefold, and sometimes tenfold.

It's best to respect the lives of others, and let them live their lives in peace. Perhaps this person will learn that.

[rhyannon]

Thanks for the luck, it's appreciated. I do agree with your comment on Karma and respect. Glad to see you're around again, you were missed.

[hrm_ok]

It sounded so much better coming from you. Mine verision included the word "fuck" way to many times to be taken seriously.

[rhyannon]

Glad to be of service *bow* I worked probably two hours on it last night and still had to proofread and remove the profanity from it myself. It's too easy to curse at someone instead of talking to them honestly and I'm not making it any easier on her. She is just as much a part of it I tried to keep that in mind as I felt this needed to be said. Gods know I'm not perfect, but I think she's wrong and in this case call a spade a spade. *hug* Anyway, email me and tell me where you've been hiding these days if you get a chance.

[msmarlamae]

Great Rant my friend!

[sistrmoon]

For the record: I did not send you an anonymous email. This is the first time I've looked at your journal in a long time, and if you have a sitemeter, you can verify that

[rhyannon]

For the record, I never at any point said you sent the email. I simply mentioned I received one on Lisa's journal. As for the rest of it, this is not a cry for your attention or your comments. I completely understand that I'm one sided on this, as I see it he's my best friend and you're not. I've tried discussing things with you before and that got us exactly nowhere. I'm not doing the back and forth spat thing like my previous post incited either, but I'm not avoiding writing out what I think either. In this case, I really don't care about your side or about your opinion of what I wrote or even your feelings in the matter. Your actions toward him and the comments toward him speak louder than words as far as I'm concerned. These are my feelings on the matter and the only reason it was left public is because I forgot click the button that made it Friends Only. Had I wanted to speak with you, I would have emailed your or gotten your number and called you. As it is, I don't think we have anything to speak about.

[sistrmoon]

in your comment above you say:

I worked probably two hours on it last night and still had to proofread and remove the profanity from it myself. It's too easy to curse at someone instead of talking to them honestly and I'm not making it any easier on her. She is just as much a part of it I tried to keep that in mind as I felt this needed to be said. Gods know I'm not perfect, but I think she's wrong and in this case call a spade a spade.Yeah, sounds like you didn't want me to see it. It "needed to be said" and "It's too easy to curse at someone instead of talking to them honestly and I'm not making it any easier on her." And, with your last post that I commented on, I commented once, you replied, and I dropped it, so I'm not sure what "back and forth" you're referring to

[rhyannon]

And here I thought you thrived on drama! You dislike my post, my honesty and my siding with Chris. Personally, I could care less. A mistake is a mistake and I've admitted to mine. The back and forth I was speaking of happened in another forum altogether. While I agree you have the right to answer a public post, I wonder why you bothered. You're dead set that this is the right course for you so other people's opinions shouldn't matter to you, especially someone you find as distasteful and hateful as myself.