Ramblings

[rhyannon]

I have been thinking a lot lately and I've tried to keep some of it out of my journal after all the drama resulted from talking about migraines all the time. I think there is a tendency in people to speak about what they know and to harp on the things they cannot change, however much they might want to. For me it was pain. I've been trying to

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[neenerface]

First let me address the migraines. The only way I can keep up to date on how you're doing with them is in here. The only way you can sometimes sort it out for yourself is in here. I had no idea there was drama. I'd like to personally send a big fuck you right in the ass to anyone who gave you a hard time. No one is forced to read this damn thing and to think someone would have the audacity to not only call themselves your friend while begrudging you a place to write but to be snarky enough to spill it in public sickens me. I love you babe, talk about your dirty socks in every entry if you want i'm still going to read

[neenerface]

0o0o0o0o0o Bowie in that movie makes me hotter than hot.

/end silly girly moment

It's a process

[response]

I don't know if I've used this metaphor with you, yet. It's like the ocean, and there will be times when the tide is in, and all you can do is keep clawing at the sand, frantically keeping yourself from being swept out to sea. Other times, the tide will be out, and you'll be sitting on a beautiful beach, remembering happy times past.

Eventually, the tide stays out longer and longer, as the healing increases. The pain subsides, to be replaced with more and more happiness. The human capacity to remember actual pain is pretty limited, and you will remember events with less emotional negativity, and you'll just feel better.

You can't skip any steps. You're in this place now so that you can be prepared for the next space. It gets better.

My 5 cents.

[miscca]

To add onto what neenerface and what response said; don't even feel like you can't talk in here, this is your sanctum to communicate your thoughts and get them out of your head and to communicate to friends what's going on in your life. If you didn't do something here, we probably would have lost touch with each other a few times over the past many years - anytime you type, I always listen, you have something valid to say

Re: My 5 cents.

[mc_dork]

*applause*

That's a better explanation than I came up with. Good on yer.

[twocents]

Just figured I'd chime in too dear. What kel said! The hell with anyone who doesn't like reading about *your* medical problems in *your* journal!!! I hope everything is going as well as can be expected after the surgery. I'd be happy to see you whenever you have the time :) This is the last week for Dark Goddess ;P

*hug*

[mc_dork]

Since we already had this conversation (hope it helped) I'm only going to comment on this...

He called them "antisocial geeks with absolutely no people skills."

What utterly crushing irony. HIM saying that about us..

*boggle*

[notgus]

I have no people skills, and Brandy called me a geek this morning. He was talking about me! I'LL KICK HIS ASS!

[mc_dork]

You met him, right?

Compared to him you're one of the popular chicks in school. Know what I mean?

[notgus]

So I'm a no-people-skill-having geek bitch? :(
Damn!