Comments | reignisover: Part One of Infinity

reignisover

Part One of Infinity

Sep 06, 2005 18:23

There's a saying that I think about quite often and it tends to keep me sane and in a positive frame of mind. "What happens today will be completely forgotten in a year's time". It's true for almost everything, but certainly does not work with everything. There are many things that can’t ever be erased no matter how deep down you try to suppress ( Read more... )

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fromtheseashes September 6 2005, 10:18:29 UTC

Mate, I know we don't see each other as often as we used to, but if you need to talk about things I like to think I'm always good for it. You know my number, my phone is almost always on.
Call whenever.

See you Friday :)

reignisover September 7 2005, 07:23:22 UTC

yeah, for sure mate. i know your a great listener, and i really mean listen in the true sense. thanks scott.

overtheview September 6 2005, 22:03:22 UTC

I 100% agree with you. There are some people out there that are quick to criticise even before you manage to finish your sentence. You try to explain a situation but they have already made up there mind and are unwilling to go any further(sounds a bit like mum doesn't it). I just deciced one day that I wasn't going to put up with that shit anymore and the 'friends' that were like that I chose to step away from. Sometimes it just ends up being more work trying to remain friendly. Realistically I think my closest friends can only be counted on the one hand and I'm happy with that.

reignisover September 7 2005, 07:32:02 UTC

thats amazing, seriously. that is the path i have always been too afraid to take. it takes an enormous amount of trust and confidence for me to completely confide in someone, but in saying that, there are a select few friends that i should have confided in already. one step at a time i guess.

liamsmummy September 7 2005, 07:45:53 UTC

C'mon guys, why do you think I'm a nigel??? That being said though, all my closest friends have been confided in. And even those that are not my "closest friends" but "good friends" have an idea, but I have never confirmed it.

amindforhate September 7 2005, 14:54:20 UTC

I am enigma wrapped in a mystery wrapped in bacon. Mmmmm... bacon. Some of my mates know everything, only about 3 from memory. Mostly when I need to talk I go to you guys. There's always gona be those who don't wana listen, but from my experience there far more who are willing to. Even if it's not to give advise they will listen. Of course tying them to train tracks and going MUH HAHAHAHAHA!!! occasionally tends to help make them listen but hey, that's just me!

reignisover September 7 2005, 20:34:37 UTC

I should correct the very last line I wrote. There are plenty of people that are prepared to listen, but as you said Bess, some people have already made up their mind before you have even opened your mouth. That's the problem, and I dont just mean in my situation, I mean in general. But at the end of the day I'm sick of holding it in, and you guys have given me the will and the courage to tell all. If people dont like it, then that's their problem. I am who I am and I cant change that. Thanks y'all.

overtheview September 7 2005, 22:50:46 UTC

Go for it and you'll feel the weight lift from your shoulders when you do. I openly speak about it to my friends now. If they ask me questions I am happy to answer them. I just look at it like this, the more people that are aware of what can go on, the less likely it can happen to someone else. The big problem with these horrible situations is that it has to remain a secret which is silly really because that is how it is started in the first place. I think I have made my friends more aware of what to look out for and that makes me feel good inside. As they say if helping even one person makes a difference then you know you've done the right thing. I'm proud of you Marc, let it all go and see the new you!