Long time no update

[razordead]

So yeah, I haven't made a proper update in forever. I just don't know what to say. I don't know what to think or feel, for that matter. I wish Drake could be here with us & I wish there was something I could do to change things

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[imdrkangel]

I love you so much.

[inanna]

*hug*

This is such an awful time for both of you... and for your family and friends who care for you. *hug*

i know that not dealing with your feelings (individually and as a couple) can destroy a marriage... my beloved's first marriage, which was shaky before, was totally destroyed when he and his ex- lost their son at 21 weeks.

While instant healing isn't possible, i pray for you both daily... and i hope that you will be able to turn to each other, not away. And i hope that you find some method of processing and moving through your pain and loss together. So often if you lose a child who is older (sometime after he is born) people know more what to say, understand your grief. But when you lose your child before they are born, so often others (and you??) don't understand how it can feel the same... that you can love this yet-unmet person with all your heart and soul. And yet still not know what to feel because you don't know them. It is a confusing mess.

i love you both... if there is anything i can do, just let me know.

[luighseach]

Oh, I can only imagine how horrible that must have been, and still is... My sympathy, for whatever it is worth...