No work makes Nina go into a posting frenzy

[rainsinger]

Picshooors by mzdt

More technical account of getting married is over on ooohshiny and here is me taking an opportunity to philosophise about it

Comments

[prophetessamy]

words are scarce these days in my neptunian mind and my progressed scorpio moon heart, yet i am full of peace and knowledge about the subject of marriage that i'd like to try.

i adore the pictures nina, especially of you dancing down the stairs.

because so many of my lessons in life involve deep and unflinching bonds with another, i naturally had no idea what i was doing when i said i do. now it is 9 years later and time has no significance. it's fun to say oo, 9 years, aren't we impressive? but really, it is timeless. i have always been with him and always will. my future is never independent of his. i will always think of him and plan for him and carry forward with him.

too many words, i'm about to try too hard. my initial thoughts about it were like line drawings without anything filled in. no weight, just ideas. now they are glorious paintings and i am filled with their delicious heaviness.

[rainsinger]

but really, it is timeless. i have always been with him and always will. my future is never independent of his. i will always think of him and plan for him and carry forward with him.

Thank you, I love this.

[casaubon]

If I'm honest, I don't think marriage changed anything in the relationship between me and my wife. We were already living together and had a 9 month old kid. Having a child was a bigger commitment than saying 'I do' in front of a bunch of people.

We had a nice party though. :D

Any excuse for a party

[rainsinger]

Having a child was a bigger commitment than saying 'I do' in front of a bunch of people.

I can imagine. :)

[tomatorama]

Oh what beautiful pictures! I'm really happy for you.

[rainsinger]

Thank you muchly :)

[jadedlibertine]

many many many congratulations :D
you look fabulous in those photographs, I love the bubbles :)
no ideas about marriage though as I haven't done it yet!!

[rainsinger]

Thank you!
The bubbles were great! I reccomend their use for all celebratory occasions.

[hollowfulofhat]

Congratulations to you both!

[rainsinger]

Many thanks :)