intelligent debate

[rainbowfox9]

I'm trying to figure out how to come up with arguments for things. I was looking at an article about something controversial, the Mozilla CEO who's been recently hired, who had given $1000 to support prop 8 which banned gay marriage in CA, and taking in all the different comments, viewpoints, etc

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[belenen]

what does 'creating fire' look like?

[rainbowfox9]

to me, it's partly just getting shit done in someone's life (whether that's creative or professional or personal/relationship) but now that I think about it more, I think what I mean more is just not whining about things. Not discussing things ad nauseam because you're not trusting yourself or you need yet *another* sounding board. Just go ahead, make your decision, and get on with your life. What I've been hearing from my friends is not only the same old sort of topic (troubles or even growth associated with them) but also the same attitude. "I want you to help me," even if it's in the form of listening, which is also a kind of help