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arabwel April 13 2010, 23:11:26 UTC
asrrrrrgh.

drunk unprotected sex =! date rape. HOW FUCKING HARD IS IT TO DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN DRUNK ENOUGH TO SAY YES TO THE WRONG PERSON/WRONG ACT AND DRUNK ENOUGH TO BE INCAPABVLE OF SAYING YES OR NO?!?!!!!

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lady_alyria April 14 2010, 00:51:44 UTC
If you are too drunk to know if you blacked out or not, you are too drunk to consent.

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arabwel April 14 2010, 01:10:07 UTC
No disagreement from me on that. (although I would argue it can be hard for other people to tell when someone is that intoxicated - which is one of those things that makes drunken sexual relations as a whole problematic :/ )

What I meant although probably did not convey well enough is, there is a difference between making bad choices when being intoxicated and being assaulted while intoxicated. And by bad choices I mean choosing to have sex with someone you might regret having sex with - not any of the "should have known better than X she has only herself to blame" bullshit. Alcohol lowers inhibitions and yeah, sometimes you end up in a situation wher eyou have to suck it up and live with what you did - but it NEVER is an excuse for having to live with something someone else did.

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westly_roanoke April 13 2010, 23:12:17 UTC
Wow, her whole statement is backpeadling and "Well, what about THEM, lookit me lookit me" mentality...

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cygnia April 13 2010, 23:15:43 UTC
I half expect this to be a collaboration with Amanda Palmer...

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lianzim74 April 14 2010, 01:45:43 UTC
Oh good, i wasn't the only one.

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zhukora1 April 13 2010, 23:15:55 UTC
STABBITY

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D: hannahsarah April 13 2010, 23:17:20 UTC
"Ah, ah, ah-ah, OW!" Yeah, real subtle social commentary there.

I suppose gansta rappers don't really advocate shooting cops and smacking their bitches up, either.

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