all things come to an end

Apr 05, 2009 14:10

So after a run of 15 years with my partners, one is leaving, ghostballet  has decided to move on. We've grown in different directions over the years and it is no longer a good fit.  T, kiyowara , and I are staying together along with RU.  ghostballet  will continue to have a parenting role in her live, but she will live with us.  It seems less disruptive that way.

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kahnegabs April 5 2009, 23:22:28 UTC
{{hugs to you all}}

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punkmom April 6 2009, 10:07:50 UTC
Thanks you-

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anonymous April 5 2009, 23:41:53 UTC
I barely know you guys and yet I still had a feeling about this. I'm so sorry - while it may be right, it must be very hard. Hugs to each and every one of you.

no-blog-rachel

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punkmom April 6 2009, 10:08:40 UTC
Yeah, transition is usually hard. Thanks for your support.

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moira_ramsay April 6 2009, 00:00:40 UTC
I am so sorry.
My love to you all right now.
Unconditional and never ceasing.

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punkmom April 6 2009, 10:09:01 UTC
Thank you sweetie! Love you too!

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dawnd April 6 2009, 00:39:04 UTC
Wow. I'm surprised on the one hand, and not on the other. I hope that the transition is as smooth as possible for all of you. As someone struggling with transition and grieving, I get it. Just make sure that you give yourself *enough* time, and know that it comes in cycles. And if you think that it would be helpful in any way for RU to talk to Allegra about this transition, feel free to ping me. I think they are pretty far apart in many ways at this point, but it's still worth the offer.

My love to all of you.

(hugs)

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punkmom April 6 2009, 10:13:30 UTC
Yeah, it looks like we are running on a parallel track. I appreciate the offer, but since Ru and Allegra haven't hung out for a long time, it might seem weird to her. We're planning for her to get together with some friends who have been through this. Please give yourself the gift of time as well. I hope your transition goes as smoothly as possible.

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Endings Are Tough northsideknits April 6 2009, 01:04:08 UTC
My thoughts go out to all of you right now. Many hugs and good wishes to you all.

Diane

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Re: Endings Are Tough punkmom April 6 2009, 10:13:49 UTC
Thanks,

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