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Oct 26, 2009 14:25

I'm 13 weeks today, and I still don't feel any sort of connection to my pregnancy. I don't feel like I'm really pregnant - I just feel like it's some words that I say, or a maybe a new hobby that I've taken up (reading about pregnancy). I am dealing with untreated (at the moment, because I stopped my medications when I found out I was pregnant) ( Read more... )

medications, depression, trimester - first, bonding

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scenecliche October 26 2009, 22:07:10 UTC
I am 24 weeks with my second and I hardly feel pregnant. I can feel her move around but I am still getting a grasp. With my first, it took until the minute they put him in my arms. Don't get me wrong, I love this baby already, but I am still even after having done this, wrapping my head around the fact my body can produce a living, healthy person.

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beaching October 27 2009, 01:10:25 UTC
Honestly? I didnt feel connected to my first until he was 6 hours old :) I love him to death now and cant imagine my life without him. But I know what you're feeling.

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megatons October 27 2009, 04:07:30 UTC
i personally didn't 'feel pregnant' until my 15wk ultrasound (dr wanted to 'make sure i was still prego') LOL
i went for an 8wk ultrasound, but it just wasn't the same and then when my belly started showing (around 6mths) and when he started to play/kick around in my stomach.
i think it may be scary for some and that's why we feel emotionally unattached. i know i did for the better half of my first trimester; that and i had all day sickness lasting way into my second trimester. i always asked myself why people got pregnant on purpose haha.

just wait, next thing you know, your belly is gonna pop out and your bean is gonna kick and you're gonna smile the biggest smile you've even smiled in your life. <3

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speedychi October 27 2009, 13:03:52 UTC
yeah....im 22 weeks and still nothing. im sure itll hit me when hes crowning or breastfeeding or something. but as for now? nothin

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chasingjennyx October 27 2009, 15:39:08 UTC
Yeah I'm about 23-24 weeks and I don't really feel much. I love the idea of baby. It makes me happy. But I don't feel connected. It kicks and I like it, but I don't really feel like it's real if that makes any sense. I don't think it'll feel real until it's here. I'm excited, don't get me wrong..It's just hard to believe that there's a living being inside of me.

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