Not Anymore

Apr 23, 2013 00:53

I've decided to come back here and start writing again. It's healthy and good and helps to have somewhere to rant to, even if hardly anyone reads it. The less who see it, the better probably anyhow ( Read more... )

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pheloniusfriar April 23 2013, 20:22:26 UTC
I'll comment more later (in the middle of studying), but I am deleting my Facebook account later today and plan to move mostly back to here. Good timing for both of us! :)

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poursumsugarome April 25 2013, 07:31:51 UTC
Friar P! What made you delete your FB? I look forward to chatting with you soon to find out and hear more....

Hope all is well.

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pheloniusfriar April 25 2013, 09:41:09 UTC
Taking a little break from studying... I deleted FB for many reasons, but the big one is definitely time. It was a constant barrage of trivia and cat pictures (don't get me wrong, I love cat pictures, but there comes a point, heh). It ended up being my "go to" place when I didn't want to have to deal with the fact I had stuff to deal with, and I was wasting all my time there. With something like LJ or blogs in general, it's more of a deliberate thing where FB was a lot more frivolous in the way that I and others used it (95% of the content was just "shared" stuff, only about 5% was actual new content, and of that, only about 10% was more than "I ate a sandwich, yay me"). And then there was the drama... it was too easy to get sucked into the "debate du jour" and even though I was careful about who I let in, there was always something there to push my buttons. Anyway, I am happy to be going back to blogging proper. I'll be posting less, but it'll be higher quality (at least in my own mind, lol, but that's what counts, right?). Like you ( ... )

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poursumsugarome April 26 2013, 09:01:38 UTC
hahaha...Sooo true! I have to agree. I get sucked into the curiosity of FB...and keeping up with folks I know of course.

I hate the constant cat pictures and fake pics about "Liking" a status to cure cancer, save the world, or stop the madness of online shopping. ha. whatever, all that crap is.

I'll be spending more time on here......I think blogging is a good way to get your feelings out.

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elricthescribe April 24 2013, 14:44:58 UTC
Spinach is never a bad thing.

{{val}} You have to do what is right for you. If it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't.

However, I'm probably the last person anyone should take relationship advice from.

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poursumsugarome April 25 2013, 07:38:26 UTC
Awww, Elric....Thanks babe! I really appreciate that...

You're right. But, sometimes even when we know it's not right, we still hold on b/c we have for so long and we just don't wanna let go. Its tough.

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pheloniusfriar April 25 2013, 10:16:23 UTC
And... finally... in response to your actual post.

You are a great catch. I figured that out pretty quickly ( ... )

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poursumsugarome April 26 2013, 09:13:14 UTC
Awww, you're so sweet ( ... )

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