Maybe distancing yourself is what's causing the problem. Maybe you just need to sit down and talk things out and find some real closure or something. I can't say for sure, because I'm not you, and I don't know the situation at all, but maybe you're going about it wrong?
it's been a long time since we've talked. i've tried getting closure and i suppose i've gotten some level of it it's just not enough for me. and besides, she doesn't want to talk to me right now, nor can she over the summer. we've said a lot of hurtful things to each other and done of lot of hurtful things to each other that it would take a lot of talking and a lot of praying to reconcile what we've broken by this point. it's all very complicated and messy.
i appreciate your advice though. especially about me being me and not being me-as-i-am-connected-to-someone-else. it's all part of the growth process and it hurts a lot less than it used to. i can live through this now, one day at a time.
Well, if things are complicated and messy, then the best thing you can do is not worry about it. God will take care of you, just as He will take care of her, each of you in the way that's best for you as individuals. Let God work it out. :3
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i appreciate your advice though. especially about me being me and not being me-as-i-am-connected-to-someone-else. it's all part of the growth process and it hurts a lot less than it used to. i can live through this now, one day at a time.
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