Argh. Let me explain. No is too much, let me sum up:
Last year, due to our local public school's epic unconcern for my older daughter's personal safety let alone her education (she was being targeted by a very persistent and aggressive bully and the school just would NOT deal with the situation properly at all), we looked into alternatives for
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You can get speech services wherever she goes to school, right? Can you get behavior intervention kind of services, too? Are you going to get an IFSP set up? Can it address both her behavior and her speech?
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No advice, but lots of empathy.
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It's a bit vague, as advice goes, sorry.
Phobia thing: I can't think how you would treat that. Probably the only way is desensitisation, since you can hardly avoid wind. But I'm not sure now is the time to start that, and she is a bit young for learning about weather systems (though my friend apparently got out some ice cubes in pursuit of explaining weather systems to a 9 year old and now I want him to explain it to me that way).
I'm guessing she got attention for being naughty at the place last year, and ignored otherwise and so all you can do is be as consistent as you can be about playing with her when she is not being silly, and not playing when she is being silly. I have a 4 year old and I fail at practicing what I preach, but it's probably the way to solve it.
Hugs. I'm better at kind thoughts...
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She has had some issues at home as well, though less often - in particular there was one really horrible meltdown a couple of weeks ago. I don't remember what set her off but it ended with her screaming and hitting and kicking and biting me. Her grandparents reported no such behavior when she went out there for a week.
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Also wondering if 'hungry' is standing in for something else -- does she carry on acting hungry once she refuses the food, or does just being offered it seem to satisfy her? Is it attention or interaction she's after instead, maybe? Or just control, which is I think pretty standard for kids :)
Are the teachers able to work with her to help her with the fear of going outside, if that's what's triggering problems? Is it possible for her just to stay inside for a while? Or could you read lots of stories about windy days (that aren't dangerous :) ) or something? Clutching at straws a bit now so just throwing some ideas out there...
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