Argh. Let me explain. No is too much, let me sum up:
Last year, due to our local public school's epic unconcern for my older daughter's personal safety let alone her education (she was being targeted by a very persistent and aggressive bully and the school just would NOT deal with the situation properly at all), we looked into alternatives for
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The book "Playful Parenting" has some suggestions about using play to connect with children and find out their feelings about things, which might help?
(NB all this is theory on my part at the moment as my kid is much younger, but I've been doing a lot of reading lately in the hope of developing at least theoretical ideas ahead of time! sorry if I'm way off-base as a result :) )
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She has had some issues at home as well, though less often - in particular there was one really horrible meltdown a couple of weeks ago. I don't remember what set her off but it ended with her screaming and hitting and kicking and biting me. Her grandparents reported no such behavior when she went out there for a week.
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Also wondering if 'hungry' is standing in for something else -- does she carry on acting hungry once she refuses the food, or does just being offered it seem to satisfy her? Is it attention or interaction she's after instead, maybe? Or just control, which is I think pretty standard for kids :)
Are the teachers able to work with her to help her with the fear of going outside, if that's what's triggering problems? Is it possible for her just to stay inside for a while? Or could you read lots of stories about windy days (that aren't dangerous :) ) or something? Clutching at straws a bit now so just throwing some ideas out there...
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