Holy Update, Batman!

[plaguemachine]

I have still been under a great deal of stress that continues to get compounds as the days pass.

I am sorry if this is triggering. I am going to have to, at the very least, mention the abuse I endured as a child.I had a considerable amount of Facebook drama recently from a friend's boyfriend that I attempted to befriend. During our second

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[elektr0death]

Re: teacher!
HOLY SHIT!
Creepy! I think I had an ex teacher say something shady to me one time after I graduated, but NOTHING compared to your dilemma. I say defriend. Block. Ignore forever. In that order. He doesn't deserve an explanation for being out of line.

Re: friend's boyfriend
Everytime I see that guy post I just get the urge to punch him in his smug little face.

[plaguemachine]

Done and done. I removed and blocked on Facebook and MySpace, both (I didn't realize that I was his ONLY FRIEND until AFTER I added him.).

Smug is the perfect adjective. I just removed him from my friends. I'm sick of everything I say or do being on trial at the hands of someone who barely knows me.

[suddenlullabye]

ugh. teacher guy sounds like a real character. i think you're totally right about deleting him. maybe just something like, "you've been completely inappropriate and i feel that i must remove you" would be good. i would probably just delete him and not say anything but i think you're braver than me in that sense. either way there is no right or wrong way to get rid of him.

i don't know what to say about the family situation that doesn't sound cliche. they've been unfair to you and i hate how much family drama can be caused by facebook. it was even part of the southpark episode tonight. i wish there was something i could say to make it better for you.

i hate how many toxic people have found their way into your life. i would wish them all into the "corn field" if i could.

*BIG HUGS*

[plaguemachine]

I'd thought about confronting him. I had told him I was uncomfortable before, to which he apologized and said he would never bring harm to me, only to keep doing the same thing. I deleted him and blocked him everywhere. I know I may get a backlash, but that just proves my point.

I just don't understand how this aunt who I'm not close with and just regained contact with any years has any place judging me like that. We don't have a relationship; so, she sent mommy to do her work. Today, she removed me from her Facebook, and I say, "good riddance." She only treated me like a part of their family for a brief time when I was little.

I hate it, too, which is why I'm going through an extensive cleansing process. These people should not affect me this much.

::hugs::

[baileysummers]

This is just the reason why facebook is evil.
Delete the creepy guy and report him to the admin for stalking.
Tell the ex-boyfriend of the friend to go fuck off.

I'm super pissed about the shit your family pulled on you/did to you. I'd tell them and let the pieces fall as they may.

I like the new format, It's different. I still like your old one though.

All in all.
*Hugs*

[plaguemachine]

I deleted and blocked the teacher, and I will go as far as it takes to make sure he stays gone.

Last night, I told the boyfriend that I don't appreciate his comments, her told me to tell him how the most recent thing he said was pessimistic (it was) and proceeded to continue the argument. He completely disregarded that I was talking about all of his bullshit comments, not just one.

This aunt, up until recently, hadn't had contact with me in years. We aren't close, and she and her siblings had a tendency to make to feel unwelcome in their family, sans some of the time when I was a children. She couldn't say what she wanted to herself, and she sent her mommy to do her bidding. Today, she removed me from her Facebook. I'm glad.

Thanks. I wanted a change.

::hugs::

[the_evernight]

Creepy! If I were you I'd get that teacher out of my life asap. That is so not ok.
I would probably delete the friend's boyfriend too, although that seems more complicated as, well... he's your friend's boyfriend. But I saw some of the posts he made and wtf, dude.

I don't know what to say about the grandmother thing, except I'm sorry you have to deal with that. It sounds really invalidating ):

Sometimes FB seems like more trouble than it's worth.

[plaguemachine]

I deleted and blocked the teacher and removed the friend's boyfriend. The boyfriend was getting on my nerves, and he has offended me for the last time. I'm done taking crap from someone I barely know.

It was ridiculous. She started asking me about my real dad and if he has a relationship with me and my son. I'm really close with my real dad and his family, and I'm definitely not with my step-dad and his. The aunt, who started the problem, removed me from her Facebook today. I'm not sad at all.

I'll agree with that, but before it was this, it was MySpace drama. It'll always be something, I suppose.

[lullabyspring]

I avoid most of my family for similar reasons - it just becomes a web of past hurt and new ways to lay guilt. I'm sorry you had to go through that kind of abuse with your family, and that you are still having to endure it in some sense.

[plaguemachine]

<3 Thank you for the support.