I empathize though...you know how difficult it is to be a pansexual male? I mean, really, how could I love a pillow? Let alone try to explain to females that I am also able to be attracted to males. Where bi-sexual women enjoy the adulation of "every man's dream" from the men they date, I get..."that's totally gay, dude", from the girls I'd try to date, at one time. Haha.
Woe to polyamory. It's such a simple concept to explain, I just cannot believe it's so difficult to understand.
Despite all this, I am glad I am able to express myself sexually; bi-sexually if I choose, even!
You need to find a girl who thinks it's HAWT that you can like guys. I have some friends, like Elaine for instance, who loveeeee it. Teehee.
Yeah -- some people are really not...smart? enough to get it. Or maybe it is that they are shitty at relationships to begin with and being in a relationship that includes more than one person just makes it easier for them to make a spectacle of their inability to interaction with people on a romantic/sexual level.
I often consider trying to sit down and come out with a spectrum-based system for expressing sexuality. It's so much more than just a few labels can describe, let alone the two that most people acknowledge
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I empathize though...you know how difficult it is to be a pansexual male? I mean, really, how could I love a pillow? Let alone try to explain to females that I am also able to be attracted to males. Where bi-sexual women enjoy the adulation of "every man's dream" from the men they date, I get..."that's totally gay, dude", from the girls I'd try to date, at one time. Haha.
Woe to polyamory. It's such a simple concept to explain, I just cannot believe it's so difficult to understand.
Despite all this, I am glad I am able to express myself sexually; bi-sexually if I choose, even!
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Yeah -- some people are really not...smart? enough to get it. Or maybe it is that they are shitty at relationships to begin with and being in a relationship that includes more than one person just makes it easier for them to make a spectacle of their inability to interaction with people on a romantic/sexual level.
Hooray for that!
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