Go Mavs. We gonna make your golden bridge fall down.

[pixiepretty]

Whoooo. I don't know about everyone else, but this time of the year is crazy! The weekends come and I totally forget about all the stuff I have to do and end up doing none of it. I have a second interview downtown tomorrow, and i'm pretty confident I will get the job. I don't want to blow it though, so pretend I didn't say anything. It's hard not

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[tischendorf]

first off...duh on the patting thing. Its why men do it when they hug another man. You're going about this the complete wrong way. It's funny to read it from your perspective, but I have the same problem. I'm very nice and all women think I'm hitting on them so they get all stand offish. I thought about it the same way you did for a long time "What am I doing wrong?". The truth is you're not doing anything wrong. Is it your fault that someone misinterpreted your intentions? There is a very big difference between being rude and being assertive. So you dont like it when ppl touch you like that, so when you let them, whose feelings are you stomping on? No one ever got what they wanted by being a pushover. You're a nice person, be that, not a doormat.

Regardless of the circumstances don't let it shake your confidence.

[pixiepretty]

I just wanted to know if there was any alternative.

[tischendorf]

I gotcha. I just got this crazy thought that you already knew the answer to your question and the real problem is that you are doubting yourself...oh well wrong again I spose.

[pixiepretty]

It makes my brain hurt to try and think what you think I am thinking in comparison to what I am saying. :)

[chjobear]

I'm always just a bitch and tell people I don't like being touched. But that would be rude.... lol

*tickles*!

jk

[pixiepretty]

haha. Yeah, I think i'm going to have to resort to that

[give_me_details]

i've found that my big problem is i always look into people's eyes when i'm talking to them and i hold their gaze, so for some people i guess that is interpreted as romantic interest... so i've found for me, i just need to act distracted when i'm talking to people that i think may take it the wrong way. but that's a fine line between distracted and nervous. maybe talk innappropriately about how you love being single and how glad you are to have girlfriends and guy friends. sometimes people need blunt talk. haha good luck. it sucks being as beautiful as us, though, i know. people just want to be all up ons.

[pixiepretty]

Haha. I seriously contemplated farting or burping, that would send the right message right?

[friedsneakers]

you could talk about other guys maybe, or, hmmm. I'm not sure. Those guys seem pretty gutsy to me, but I'm the kind of guy who wouldn't make a move unless I'm 100% sure the feeling was mutual.

[give_me_details]

yeah those are good. haha. although sometimes boys think that's hot. boys are dumb.