Comments | pipsdixiechick: Have No Choice

pipsdixiechick

Have No Choice

Feb 03, 2008 15:13

Just need to vent, not trying to sound needy or sorry for myself or anything. It's just that, boy, going thru a divorce - particularly one like I have gone thru - is one experience that I never want to have again. And one big reason is, it seems like a lot of my friends and family seem to either avoid me like the plague or make me feel ( Read more... )

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anothersadsong February 5 2008, 03:48:19 UTC

i think in time things will get better. plus, you know my e-mail addy if you ever need to talk or vent or cry or whatever. ♥

pipsdixiechick February 5 2008, 07:08:28 UTC

Lauren, thank you. *HUGS* I just feel so trapped right now, and though I know things are destined to get better, it's just that right now I seem to see everything in gray. Especialy with the circumstances with my divorce - really, stuff you could not make up. I think I may take you up here very soon. Thanks again. *HUGS TIGHT*

kittenqueen February 6 2008, 02:49:33 UTC

Oh sweetie, I am so sorry that you feel all alone!! Especially by those right around you, as I'm sure you could use their support even more now than ever.

And I can also understand your decision to take an online break for a while....I've done the same thing repeated times when I need to.

But also PLEASE know that you've got friends....and if you need me you can always get in touch with me via email. If your email is still the same (and I think it is, I'll have to check) then I'll send you an email too.

You are a wonderful, beautiful, STRONG woman - and you will pull through this!! But when you need someone to lean on know that I'm here for ya!

Love ya shanipie-shanibabe!
KQ

pipsdixiechick February 6 2008, 08:02:26 UTC

*HUGS* Thank you baby. I actually did get both of your emails - I will definitely reply to them by the week's end - especially with the second one, I completely understand about that stuff happenening!

*HUGS AGAIN* I love and appreciate you and I know you know that this is not directed at you. Thank you for being here for me (and you too Lauren!!!)

lady_pippina February 8 2008, 14:57:58 UTC

For those who consider that you're cursed or that you're a failure, I say that they don't know Shani, the WOMAN I know. You're one of the most intelligent, brave and lovely women I have met and I'm proud of calling you my friend. Sadly, I can't hug you or go out with you as I'd love to, but you know that I'm here for you always.

Please, take care of yourself. If you need time, I'm going to respect it, but I need to know that you're ok. Try to talk to your family and just let them know how you feel. Tell them that you need them to support you in this difficult time, that divorce is certainly not the end of the world, and that you're not a freak because you're divorced now. You tried once, you failed, but let me tell you that you showed how much you respect yourself when you decided to finish your marriage. You will be happy and in love soon, I'm sure.

Love you, sweetheart!

pipsdixiechick February 16 2008, 04:26:23 UTC

*HUGS* Sil, I'm sorry it took so long to get back to you. And thank you for what you have told me. I thought I was doing better but now I am feeling the opposite again. But I am okay, and I will fight with myself if I have to to get things right. If I'm not making sense right now it's because I haven't been sleeping well lately and can't even put two words together. Love ya babe. *HUGS Again*