Comments | pinkish_delish: Quoted, May 2008

pinkish_delish

Quoted, May 2008

May 25, 2009 14:10

Thoughts to ponder:
No matter how perfect you thought it was, once a relationship is dead, it's dead for good. Women who whine and moan and trying to patch things up are just wasting their breath.
Volland S. (2005). Cooking for Mr. Right. England: Penguin Books Ltd.

A year ago, a memory so vague yet flouts back in place when I came across it.
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quotations, lessons to note

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lollyswirls May 27 2009, 05:48:30 UTC

Like I read somewhere - A break-up means a relationship is Broken. Means it either needs fixing or can be discarded. :) IF it can't be fixed, it should be thrown away. End of story. :)

To be fixed requires the effort and commitment from BOTH parties. One party's thinking and whining and moaning to patch things up = futile waste of precious time and energy which can be used to free one up for the "next better player". ;)

Hope you're having a smashing day! :D

HUGS and LOVE,
Esther

pinkish_delish May 27 2009, 05:54:54 UTC

Yeah, in this case, it's already been deemed broken by the other.
Probably I just refused to see the blinking red lights.
It's just about time to ditch those negative feelings, it's been lingering around for too long a time.

And true enough, it takes TWO to make things work, which isn't the option nor possibility right now. I suppose that's my understanding.

My time and energy is going into things better worth my effort.
I can't wait to share loads of stuff with you this Friday evening!

I'm having a smashing day and hope that you are too!

I'm looking forward to Friday night! =)

Hugs and Kisses and loads of Love,
Cynthia