I've been horribly AWOL lately and crap at answering comments and the like. I'm not sure when this situation will improve. Honesty is always the best policy
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Thanks, babe. These things happen, I know. It's part and parcel of life. But holy hell, it's a hard pill to swallow when it strikes someone as outspoken and wonderful and full of life as Bec.
It's been a tragic month for amazing women. Let it be said.
Like I'm benefiting from the tragedy of a friend before the fucking funeral.
That? That's just bloody silly, it's not about stepping in just because life goes on, it's stepping up and taking ONE single burden away from those that are mourning her - you all miss her and grieve for her, but you doing that job - and I know you'll do it well in her memory - you dong that means everyone else has a bit more TIME not to have to think about filling that one particular void she's left. That's a wonderful thing to do. Don't make me come down there and shake you missy!
And bugger this about not answering comments, I'm not here for that either ok? I never think that, I have the time today, I'm talking to you, I certainly don't do it with the expectation of you having time to answer.
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Thank you, Ellie. I so appreciate every little card and comment you drop my way.
I'm sure by the time I get going in the role, I'll feel better about it. It was just a really hard phone call to make yesterday, calling her S.O. and accepting. But he was really understanding about how hard and awkward it is for everyone, and he's an officer I thoroughly respect and admire and look forward to working with.
As for TIG, I've said to someone else above that it's just not my nature to give up on people once they've got under my skin. And I can recognize the fact that he is highly unlikely to ever buy a vowel or get a clue. But it doesn't stop me from hoping for that, for him if not for me.
Thanks for the song, baby. Hope things are less miserable in your corner of the world right now.
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Sorry to hear about your awful week. *hugs*
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I just can't reconcile that excitable pre-holiday Bec with the fact that she's gone.
It just won't feel real. It refuses to feel real. :(
Thanks for the hugs, my love. Much appreciated and needed right now.
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It's been a tragic month for amazing women. Let it be said.
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Babe, you've had more than your fair share of suck this week. Thanks for even checking in.
You've been in my thoughts daily. Please know that. And I think elanurel would be so proud of how strong you've been.
Much love to you.
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Hang in there, I'm gonna try catch you for chat soon. ♥
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Thanks for being such a good friend. *hugs*
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That? That's just bloody silly, it's not about stepping in just because life goes on, it's stepping up and taking ONE single burden away from those that are mourning her - you all miss her and grieve for her, but you doing that job - and I know you'll do it well in her memory - you dong that means everyone else has a bit more TIME not to have to think about filling that one particular void she's left. That's a wonderful thing to do. Don't make me come down there and shake you missy!
And bugger this about not answering comments, I'm not here for that either ok? I never think that, I have the time today, I'm talking to you, I certainly don't do it with the expectation of you having time to answer. ( ... )
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Thank you, Ellie. I so appreciate every little card and comment you drop my way.
I'm sure by the time I get going in the role, I'll feel better about it. It was just a really hard phone call to make yesterday, calling her S.O. and accepting. But he was really understanding about how hard and awkward it is for everyone, and he's an officer I thoroughly respect and admire and look forward to working with.
As for TIG, I've said to someone else above that it's just not my nature to give up on people once they've got under my skin. And I can recognize the fact that he is highly unlikely to ever buy a vowel or get a clue. But it doesn't stop me from hoping for that, for him if not for me.
Thanks for the song, baby. Hope things are less miserable in your corner of the world right now.
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