Some things change

[pantangqueen]

Happy belated Easter family and friends! I have not logged into Live Journal in a long time. Perhaps there are periods when we all seem enthusiastic about posting entries every other day and periods when we lay off completely. Work has been keeping me busy for sure - running the maid business with Mum, going for modelling shoots and i've been doing

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It is all up to us

[petitepam]

What a very meaningful entry Stephanie. It is not always easy to admit our mistakes and also to want to change for the better. I am very proud of you and I admire the fact that you have come to realize that we have to be careful and also selective of the people we confide in about our most personal and private affairs. We sometimes have to learn the hard way, through some of the not so pleasant consequences that result.
Not everyone in life can see their faults and weaknesses. Some of us are not even aware of them. In the end, it is all up to us.
You always have my love and support no matter what. Isn't that what unconditional love is all about?

I appreciate your kinds words and I love you always.

Mum xx

Re: It is all up to us

[pantangqueen]

I really want to thank you for always being there for me and supporting the many decisions I have made over the last few months and years... You always guide me to see everything in a positive light (esp when my chilli padi side is waiting to bounce back) haha! While others would usually judge and criticize, you see the good in people. That's a true gem of a person.

Love you Mum.

It makes us better people

[notwaleniale]

Live and learn is what they say and it is these experiences that make you who you are as you grow and experience and LEARN from the things that you consider mistakes.

I often reflect on my life thus far and I can only say that now, in my 30's, that I truly feel I have come full circle in my life because I have chosen to learn from past experiences. I lead a happy and peaceful existence with no concerns for what others think of me or getting caught up in silly whispers or hurtful/bitchy people. I have exactly who I want in my life, have moved away from those who dragged me down and all I can say, is that I am a better person for acknowledging my past errs and looking to my future with my eyes open.

So, here's to the new you cuz Steph.

Re: It makes us better people - Thanks Cuz!!

[pantangqueen]

Dear Cuz Elaine
Your reply to my entry is truly inspirational. The main thing is what we learn, that's absolutely right!

At times though, I forget myself and "almost" fall back and want to talk to people (maybe it is what i'm used to) but I realise my life is MUCH better this way. Less talk, less gossip and i'm able to decide what's best for myself without people telling me what to do/not to do. There have been many people who dragged me down too without me realising it.

Thanks for your sweet post. It's nice to know there are family and loved ones who can relate to similiar views I share. Love to you, Adam and your lovely kids always.

Steph