I dont know. I vent my frustrations here, then delete. I dont want A to come here and read when Im mad. I know he used to do that when we were first dating
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Maybe he can't express himself well. Like buying you stuff after the argument, maybe that was his way of expressing his sorrow. Sometimes people can't communicate what they're feeling.
Not defending any outbreaks but, y'know, some people are bad at expressing emotions be them good or bad.
If it makes you feel any better, I told my husband last night dead serious if he came up and got in our bed I'd kill him in his sleep...we were having a fight over whether I was going to give my one year old (with a growling tummy!) a cereal bar at 11 at night because she couldn't fall asleep. He couldn't be reasoned with that it was okay because she hadn't eaten anything (only drank juice and milk) since around 4 pm and he kept yelling at me with her in my arms. I meant it, he knew I meant it, and today we haven't said anything to each other about it.
Sometimes shit happens in stressful situations or in some cases boozy situations. I would let him know it better not be a recurring thing anymore and you want a heart felt apology (with flowers! ;) or you will kick his ass to the curb next time. It's all you can do until you know 100% you've had enough.
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Not defending any outbreaks but, y'know, some people are bad at expressing emotions be them good or bad.
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It helps to have others listen, a different perspective.
My worst fear is that I do not want to waste any time in a relationship that isnt going to pan out.
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Sometimes shit happens in stressful situations or in some cases boozy situations. I would let him know it better not be a recurring thing anymore and you want a heart felt apology (with flowers! ;) or you will kick his ass to the curb next time. It's all you can do until you know 100% you've had enough.
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Knowing 100% is the key I think.
HUGS! You are a great mom!
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