Mothers Day & Missing of people.

[pakka]

Well Made it through Mom's Birthday without major issues, and here we sit at Mothers Day a Month later and I'm having major issues missing her. Its been over two years and I think about her constantly, and talk to her nearly daily. But for some reason the stress in my life and the holiday have made for a mess today. I know it will pass, and I'll

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[jenna_thorn]

Sometimes just thinking out loud helps you shuffle stuff into place.

*hugs*

[tenar10r]

*More hugs*

[jenna_thorn]

And a second thought, to go along with Happy Happy Birthday wishes, is this: yes, birthdays are a good tiem to get introspective, to evaluate and set goals and so on and sof forth, but you know what? Also not a deadline.

I know the surgery seems like forever ago, but it's been nine months. Less than a year. You are still shaking out some of those changes and can you be shedding the weight faster? Maybe. do other people get faster results? Sure. But they aren't you.

Don't beat yourself up about it. You have the resources, so do the research, figure out what you can do that you aren't and then do it. Make sense?

Big hugs!