Im probably a bad gay but i really don't think it's my employer's job to provide resources to help employees learn about gay experiences and identities.


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Silver medal. Beach volleyball level C. Gay games Guadalajara 2023
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i applied for a job in Paris; and started looking at youtube videos on things people wish they had known before moving, culture shocks, cultural codes etc ( Read more... )

Im pretty fucked by France
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my December - February is planned to be full of opera
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at work they are now "encouraging" everyone to come to office 60% of the time. i decided to stop by today as i had a meeting. well, there were no available rooms for the meeting, so everyone was still supposed to dial in from their desks using MS Teams. but i forgot my headphones. as i did not want to sit at my desk and scream at my laptop, i ( Read more... )

a headhunter emailed about some position in a consulting firm. i told him "thank you for reaching out, but I am not interested at this time. I tried private sector and it is not for me. "

(i have been working for various government organizations since 2012, after I left a consulting firm)his reply made me laugh ( Read more... )

been here on and off since August, working remotely, playing beach volleyball.
photos are from yesterday and today :)


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yep, appendicitis. started when i was on a trip to spain i October 2013. started as a stomach discomfort, then dull pain. i didnt think it was appendicitis. then fever started . when i finally got back to UK went to A&E. they didnt know what it was at first. then after CT scan said it was appendicitis with an abscess. put me on IV antibiotics for ( Read more... )

2013: snowboard, volleyball, Hamburg, Prague, Dresden, Berlin, Paris, Budapest, Barcelona, Riga, Grand Canyon, Monument valley, NYC, Fire island, Chicago, Granada, Cordoba, Sevilla, appendicitis, Berlin, Amsterdam :) Lots of theatre, some dates, new friends.