Sometimes, feminist perspectives can be acquired at some of the most unlikely places and in some of the most unlikely situations. For me, a rich perspective on the sex work industry was acquired at a casino in Atlantic City a few days ago, with an escort with whom I spoke regarding her life, choices and challenges
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It's also a personal experience that got him thinking in a less abstract way, and challenged some lingering biases. I've had similar reactions when I've seen racist or classist behavior in real life (I'm middle-class and white, so privileged in those areas) and thought 'Good lord... I'd want to smack someone if I was treated that way! How is this still happening?' rather than dealing with it on a more intellectual, and kind of bloodless, level.
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As much as I can sympathise with you for what your ex did to you, it's really not the sex workers fault that there are weak willed men (and women). Because if it wasn't a sex worker he were fucking, it'd be someone else, paid or not. I know you're really conflicted, you even say it wasn't the sex workers fault he strayed, but that kind of thinking that they provide an 'outlet' is really close to blaming the sex workers for people's weak willed-ness.
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It's really cool that you worked in that line of work, but who's to say she has those kinds of resources or that she is even aware of it. It doesn't mean that everyone who prostitutes is actually doing it for a truly noble cause, because, lets face it, having sex for money can be relatively easier for some people compared to having a day job. I don't think, either, that it means you have completely lost respect for yourself and your body. It is true for many women, yes, but I just don't feel that they are mutually exclusive. You can still respect yourself and your body, like this woman, by deciding that you aren't going to have sex just because it's easy money, but because of x reason and, once, if ever, you get in a better place, you'll ( ... )
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