"If she's a virgin, she doesn't have any way of comparing [her husband to other men]. If she's been with other men, then she has experience. Having experience makes women stronger."
It's *EXACTLY* this. It's nothing about making the sex better or the marriage stronger. It's about keeping the woman under the man's thumb.
"I know girls who went through this restoration and they were caught out on their wedding night by their husbands," he says. "They realised they weren't virgins. Even if society accepts such a thing, I would still refuse to marry her."
Virginity is such a fucking stupid concept; even more so when you mark it with a physical state that doesn't even always corellate to a woman's actual sexual experience.
Penetrative sex only correlates with a broken hymen about half the time, and that's only for a certain definition for the word "broken"--tearing is more accurate.
If a girl breaks her hymen with a tampon, then that means she was born with either a small or non-existent opening in her hymen, and it was not corrected with surgery--if you have no opening in your hymen, you can't menstruate correctly.
I need to dig up this one site someone linked me once on VaginaPagina. Most people have a complete misunderstanding of what the hymen actually is. I know I did for a very long time--media, for some reason, perpetuates completely false myths about it.
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It's *EXACTLY* this. It's nothing about making the sex better or the marriage stronger. It's about keeping the woman under the man's thumb.
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Fuck. You. Good. Sir.
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My first time, my hymen broke. I know. It freaking HURT LIKE HELL.
But I didn't bleed.
OMG STONE ME.
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If a girl breaks her hymen with a tampon, then that means she was born with either a small or non-existent opening in her hymen, and it was not corrected with surgery--if you have no opening in your hymen, you can't menstruate correctly.
I need to dig up this one site someone linked me once on VaginaPagina. Most people have a complete misunderstanding of what the hymen actually is. I know I did for a very long time--media, for some reason, perpetuates completely false myths about it.
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