Comments | onfeynyuan

onfeynyuan_shen

meme

Mar 26, 2006 00:17

What are 10 good things and 10 bad things about me (person posting this).

You don't have to necessarily do 10 each, but for every good one, there should be a bad one; you can say less good things, but there must be at least one good thing in the reply.

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m_G

"fire away"

meme

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onfeynyuan_shen March 26 2006, 05:21:03 UTC

maybe i should have added " and explain why you think this is good or bad?
I donno.

soleta_nf March 26 2006, 18:56:29 UTC

You are very generous and friendly. I have nothing bad to say about you. :)

why i want to hear bad stuff... onfeynyuan_shen March 27 2006, 06:45:18 UTC

I guess that's good, but I'm trying to figure out what things maybe I should change about myself, that I don't know about or don't see... I guess for people who know me mostly online, that perspective may be sort of different or less complete - well, I donno, i probably write some wierd stuff too sometimes, though, right?

I feel like made I've created my own delusions to protect myself from truths about myself that perhaps I would rather not hear, but perhaps must if I am to overcome those things...

Sorry I have been reading much, or commenting, I'm not very organized about much in my life right now, so probably a lot of things I could be doing, I'm not...

m_G

Re: why i want to hear bad stuff... soleta_nf March 27 2006, 14:54:36 UTC

I honestly don't feel that I can comment because I haven't known you for 10 years or so. I can say at the time in high school you were very shy and seemed to have trouble with your self esteem and confidence, and sticking up for yourself. I don't know if that's changed. But you were always very sweet, generous, friendly and kind, so those are definitely more important than any lack of self-confidence. But as I'm discovering lately, it's really hard to go through life with crap for self-confidence (I have shaky self-confidence/esteem). You always doubt yourself, which it difficult enough, but I'm realizing that so many people can see that, and pounce on it and take advantage of it, manipulating your self-doubt to get what they want. So I realize that I need to at least appear confident in myself to at least head off these predators. At the same time, I'm realizing that someone can be brilliant and all kinds of good things, but if they don't have the confidence to be sure of their brilliant ideas or follow through on their goodness and ( ... )

Re: why i want to hear bad stuff... soleta_nf March 27 2006, 14:58:37 UTC

cough. *my* friends list. I didn't mean to speak in Newfanese. ;)

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