A death in the family

Mar 07, 2018 11:21

My grandfather passed away yesterday afternoon ( Read more... )

family issues, rambling, grief

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maglor_20 March 7 2018, 15:55:21 UTC
I'm so sorry. My condolences to you and your family.

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oloriel March 8 2018, 09:21:37 UTC
Thank you.

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elenbarathi March 7 2018, 17:55:10 UTC
*hugs* So sorry to hear; wishing peace to you and your family.

"So Great-grandpa is not in hospital anymore?"

That's a lovely way of putting it. He's not in hospital any more; he's gone home at last.

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oloriel March 8 2018, 09:28:34 UTC
Thank you. I think we've all been resigned to this for a long time. But of course it hurts to wrap up the last loose ends and part forever.

Yes, he's no longer suffering. That's what I tried to tell Felix, too. He took it very hard. He wasn't even particularly fond of Grandpa, who was no longer able to play or joke or do puzzles with him, but he knew him as an entity who belonged to the family, and the fact that he is gone forever does pose a big problem. Felix feels this (like everything) very much, and we had a long, difficult talk about mortality yesterday evening before Felix could sleep. Julian is a lot less affected, although I suspect he's going to pick up a lot of cues from Felix, as he always does.

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lindahoyland March 8 2018, 04:43:42 UTC
Hugs,

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oloriel March 8 2018, 09:28:49 UTC
Thank you.

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barbardin March 8 2018, 20:37:11 UTC
Das tut mir sehr Leid für dich und deine Familie. Auch wenn es sich über einen langen Krankheitsverlauf hinweg angebahnt hat, eine schmerzende Lücke bleibt trotzdem zurück.

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oloriel March 10 2018, 15:14:39 UTC
Die Lücke ist ja eigentlich schon länger da. Nur lässt es sich jetzt einfach nicht mehr leugnen. >_>
Danke dir.

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