Lupita Nyong'o remembers Chadwick Bozeman on the 3rd anniversary of his death

[nutella_forever]

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Lupita Nyong’o remembered her “Black Panther” co-star Chadwick Boseman on the third anniversary of his death

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[blahblahcakes64]

The confusion was so profound that it took months to trust the feeling of joy again.

This is an incredible expression of feeling. I hope Lupita and Chadwick's family are doing well and feeling supported. <3

[babycheeses1]

I can't believe it's been 3 years already

[nutella_forever]

Grief is so weird, it’s been over 2 years since I’ve lost my uncle to Covid and in the weeks before and months after I kept starting crying at random while at work or driving or grocery shopping, it felt like a never ending river that would often break a dam

It slowly got better and now it hits me less and less, but I am still so mad about how he was taken from us and I think I’ll never be able to think or talk about it without crying, I just think about it less often now

[shimabukuro]

It was just two years for my grandpa too. Losing him to covid enraged me. I felt like he was stolen.

[archersangel]

When my Mother passed I cried nearly every day for 3 months. I wasn't even sad most of the time when it happened, it would just come out of nowhere. I somehow managed to never cry in public, but I got close a few times.

[sirena73]

This is year 3 after losing my dad and it was a full two years before I could get a handle on the suddenly-bursting-into-tears-out-of-nowhere thing. I've also reached the point of thinking about it less often, but my voice always shakes when I speak a memory of my dad out loud.

It's a scar; it won't ever heal, it will just look and feel different. Sending you hugs and a little bit of peace wherever you are right now.

[magicpebble]

I still feel sad whenever I watch one of his movies. I rewatched Endgame recently and choked up a bit when Black Panther appeared.

[pikapika217]

I feel her on this. My grandmother's first anniversary passing was earlier this month and it's hard to know what to do to honor them or to remember them well. I talk to her all the time tho and I try to honor her by treating myself/my loved ones extra lovingly when possible because she was VERY much the huggy-kissy loving type who loved to laugh. That and when I wear my pink shirts. It's less that I miss old times and more that we keep having new times and new experiences that I just can't truly share with her. Little day to day things or even stuff like how I know she would've LOVED the Barbie movie or laughed at trump getting arrested multiple times. Her laugh and her love of joy are what I think of and while I am grateful to have a phone message of her calling me from a few years ago to hear when I need it OFC it's not the same.

Missing people you love is so hard even when you accept it. You have moments of wanting them - to talk or to see them - and have to remember and just deal with it.

[progression]

What you wrote about your grandmother and how you feel is really beautiful. It’s times like this where I hope there’s some sort of afterlife so those who have passed can see how much they were/are loved.

[pikapika217]

Thank you 💕

I feel very fortunate to not only have had her for so long in my life but for her to have been the kind of person she was. From what I have heard about her own mother/my great grandmother she was a terror to everyone in her/our large family and even talking about her now my mom is afraid at times and so I 1000% think that my grandmother did the work to be as opposite of that as possible and that takes so much strength to do, especially for women of her generation.

[tomelette]

"You have moments of wanting them - to talk or to see them - and have to remember and just deal with it." I still feel this when I think of my grandmother and one of my closest friends. Sometimes to tell them about new things and sometimes to fight about old things with them.