The singer said that they accidentally misgender themselves sometimes too. https://t.co/CtsiGeSNIB - etalk (@etalkCTV) July 16, 2021 Demi Lovato says its ok if people misgender them, because they often make the same mistake themselves
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I do not understand the use of the terms "they/them" tbh. I grew up knowing those words to mean plural, multiple, more than one etc. So Im still confused when people use it in this context. Why would she use they and not he or she for example?
Cause at that moment they dont identify with the consstruction of what a “he” or “she” means.
Linguistics wise, i see how it can be confused as plural but it’s nowhere near other English language fuck ups. And language always adapts with the times.
as for not using he or she, those pronouns imply a connection with that gender presentation, and a nonbinary or genderqueer person may not feel a connection with he or she as a pronoun. "they" may better encapsulate their understanding of themselves.
Saying that he/she “implies a connection with that gender presentation” ignores the fact that there are many gender nonconforming people (who may not even be obviously male or female based on their presentation) who still use he/she. It's not inherently tied to presentation.
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Linguistics wise, i see how it can be confused as plural but it’s nowhere near other English language fuck ups. And language always adapts with the times.
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https://www.merriam-webster.com/words-at-play/singular-nonbinary-they
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they
as for not using he or she, those pronouns imply a connection with that gender presentation, and a nonbinary or genderqueer person may not feel a connection with he or she as a pronoun. "they" may better encapsulate their understanding of themselves.
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