Woody Allen & Soon-Yi Previn Hit Back At HBO’s ‘Allen V. Farrow’: “These Documentarians…Put Together A Hatchet Job Riddled With Falsehoods”
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February 22, 2021 HBO aired the first episode of its four-part docuseries “Allen v. Farrow” on Sunday, setting up for a deep dive into the 1992 custody
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Which was bullshit, but a lot of people swallowed it and got hung up on the lack of an official adoptive or step parent tie. As if the mere fact that he was her siblings' father didn't make him enough of a parental figure in her family set up to make this wholly inappropriate.
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Marrying your adopted/stepdaughter is a huge red flag but people also wanted the prestige and possible Oscar nod/win of being in a Woody Allen film on their resume.
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But I do not believe or have seen any evidence that "most people" would involve themselves in any inappropriate romantic or sexual way with underage teens.
I think the fact that so many people are unwilling to believe it when it happens, like with a Woody Allen, is because they cannot imagine themselves doing it and find the idea so reprehesible, that they immediately start thinking there must be some reason, something they're not privy to, that allowed it to happen. So they give the benefit of the doubt to the adult in the situation because it seems impossible that someone else would break a cultural and legal taboo that they themselves have no interest in breaking.
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So gross.
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signed,
a woman
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My point is the idea that all of us, men or women, seeking sexual and/or romantic encounters/relationships with children or young teens, is not the case and, logically, to make my point explicit, if this was true, it would mean you as an adult, have been attracted to the idea of sexual and/or romantic relations with a child or young teen. I doubt that is the case and I doubt you are the only exception to the idea.
I respect your experience and I respect that some people, especially men, do sexualize children and young teens. I've seen it, I know it's true, I'm not denying that.
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i just think there's a very particular, fucked up dynamic between a lot of older (heterosexual) men and young girls that are pretty invisible to a lot of society (not in woody's case, obviously). that's the point. but i got the most creepy attention from men the younger i was, and pretty much all of my female friends have the same experiences. i was first sexualized by older men when i was 9 years old, and i was EXTREMELY skinny/flat chested/young looking.
straight men are trash, basically.
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I'm never going to pretend or claim that isn't real and indefensible, whether it happens to a grown woman or teen girl and espcially to a child.
My comment was intended to be very very narrow in its scope and not excusing or defending men or anyone who does any of this.
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this does not seem very "narrow" to me.
editing to specify how hurtful and fucked up it is for a man to comment with such a broad-based comment like this one, particularly when you specify HETERO men. you have no idea what it's like to be targeted by a gross old HETERO man as a young girl. it's traumatizing, and way more common than you and most other non-women want to believe.
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I DO think that we make excuses for others like us because we personally would never do a disgusting thing.
I would agree, if it was said, that most men, most people, don't want to believe it when young women or women in general, talk about their experiences being abused, molested, generally sexualized against their will. I remember how much children weren't believed and it wasn't until the 90s really that we saw things change in how people thought. I don't believe people didn't want to believe children were being molested/raped because they themselves wanted to do it, just to use an example.
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you will literally never understand. period. jfc.
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