I try to celebrate every birthday exactly the way I want to. Usually I make sure to be on a holiday, but when staying at home it's waking whenever I want, eating whatever/wherever I want and treating myself (a little).
All other special occasions are usually celebrated with food, because I've got issues.
For me it was the get over it. If you are alive you have a leg up on millions. So you age and we all do. It’s not youth that ever bothered me it’s watching those I love get older too that’s hard. We are all aging all of us and if you don’t its cause your dead. So unplug if needed, stop killing yourself for the unattainable, and try your best to live your life focusing on people and experiences.
For some reason I imagined her being a lot older than me than that. Damn, none of the cast of Gossip Girl are as old as I think they are! Why did they seem so old?
I'm guessing because they all looked too old to be playing high school students or college freshmen. We all prob assumed they were much older than they were just because of that.
Now that I'm in my 30s I've become so much more aware of celebs who are also in their 30s and only a couple years older than me lol. Like they used to seem so much older but now it's like we're practically the same age and it's weird!
I've never had a "grown-up" party so I think that or at least a dinner with close friends for my 30th this year would be great. Or I just want to treat myself to a nice new handbag lol.
My aunt somehow convinced my very clueless dad that I need to start having a valuable jewelry collection (???) so he got me lab-diamond earrings. I'm very thankful for them obv but I was very surprised lol and my aunt was like "no more handbags, you're turning 30!!" like idek what that means??? Another aunt was like "you need to have a portrait of yourself painted" I guess we're living in the 1870s and I'm May Welland.
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All other special occasions are usually celebrated with food, because I've got issues.
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My aunt somehow convinced my very clueless dad that I need to start having a valuable jewelry collection (???) so he got me lab-diamond earrings. I'm very thankful for them obv but I was very surprised lol and my aunt was like "no more handbags, you're turning 30!!" like idek what that means??? Another aunt was like "you need to have a portrait of yourself painted" I guess we're living in the 1870s and I'm May Welland.
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Send her to me, all my aunts do is tell me I should be married by now!
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