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[oh_whimsical]

I can feel a breakdown coming. I haven't felt this way in years, but I feel it again now. And I don't know who to talk to about it, so I'm just going to talk about it here. I've mentioned my roommate stuff before; she has struck again. When I got home from work on Saturday night, there was a note in the door saying if $650 isn't paid by the 17th,

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[queen_insane]

It is not your fault that she's not talking it seriously. You're a good person and the fact that she's doing this to you is not even close to right. If she's not going to pay her rent or pull her fair share something really does need to be done about that. I hope she get's better but if she doesn't you might need to put your foot down, it sucks but sometimes things like that have to happen. People need to get woken up to the fact that it's not a game.

You deserve a home, if she's not taking that seriously that's her fault, not yours.

[queen_insane]

Also you are very much not alone. I know it doesn't mean much but I think you are quite awesome.

[nicenicegirl]

*hugs*

let it out hun! this is the place to vent, i know that first hand lol

it's so iffy having a roomate. it can either work out gerat or work out like this. i'm sorry you're having so many problems. i really hope things can get better for you.

and i'm really glad that the tsunami didn't affect you!

[crackedeggie]

hey erika bb you know you can /always/ ramble to me even though its the small bajillion things right? just send over an email and ill def hear you out.

this rent thing is fucking ridiculous and you should not deal with her shit. i swear. if you can get another roommate id start talking to her about what a goddamn mess she's created in your life. i know you might go with the three strikes rule but you really have to tell her all of this in order to try and get it better, if not id really think itd be better to get a roommate. this is goddamn serious. this is your home. you dont want to be homeless and you're working your own ass to pay this off. idk the one thing she can do is pay on time.

anyway.
i also just wanted to say you're not a friend of convenience to me. *huggles*

and im really glad to have heard the warnings taken down for you guise. legit.

[shampayn]

oh sweetheart...that's a really awful spot to be in, i'm so sorry you're going through this right now. i can't imagine how on-edge this must feel for you. it sounds to me like you did what you could, and if your friend jill can come in and take amy's spot, i think she should. can she pay off the rent with you so that you aren't evicted? because it just sounds like you need a money-rescue really badly right now. i think amy should pay off as much as she can afford and get outta there so jill can come in. perhaps jill can help pay off what is owed as well in case you and amy are short? i'm not sure :/ i've lived at home all through college, so i really dunno what having a roommate is like, but i hope at least some part of my suggestions can help a little. but mostly, i think you and amy shouldn't be roomies anymore. it definitely sounds like she's untrustworthy and unreliable, and that is not what you need in someone you live with.

i'm really glad to hear you're safe and i hope this predicament will be weaseled out of pronto <3